Sigh. That was not intentional misgendering, much as I resent forced speech against belief and reality - that was plain mistake HQ, sorry, I'm usually very careful to use names only as I don't want to make moderating this forum harder for you.
In my defence it's damn confusing. The whole thing is a mindfuck, and sometimes I forget to twist my thoughts and language through the required hoops. Especially when it's someone using very male pattern behaviour to harass women, and the reality of what is going on is so very, very obvious.