I posted a comment on a very similar thread to this quite a while ago, questioning what we would prefer happen?
Women give a statement with their version on events. The man disagrees. How (other than just accepting the woman’s statement as the truth) do we want police to ‘investigate’ this? What sort of investigation do we deem appropriate?
Yes it should be handled sensitively and with dignity but honestly, having been in that situation myself I don’t see how this process could ever feel sensitive or dignified. Nothing about that time in your life feels that way.
So if they can’t ask for your phone, or your clothes, and there no (or an unreliable) witness. Then what do we want them to do?
The legal system has to be a two way street, they can’t just believe you because you’re a woman because some women (for a multitude of reasons) do lie. The legal system fails people in many aspects beyond sexual assault too. But as of yet nobody has a better alternative.
(Personally I think that we’ll eventually all end up wearing the human equivalent of dashcams)
In response to my comment on the earlier thread one poster replied something along the lines of ‘Well I’d rather a few innocent men be punished than lots of guilty ones get away with it’ - This is dangerous- VERY dangerous but unless we fix the system (rather than just poking holes in it) then its where we’re heading!