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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

RIP Annabelle Lancaster

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JessicaWakefieldSV · 09/04/2019 17:48

A man has been arrested in connection with the death of a 22 year old woman who has died after falling from a tower block.

www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/enfield-murder-latest-annabelle-lancaster-dead-tributes-tower-block-london-a8860651.html%3famp

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ErrolTheDragon · 09/04/2019 18:03

A young mother.Sad

JessicaWakefieldSV · 09/04/2019 18:04

Yes. This is so sad.

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vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 09/04/2019 18:09

Not another one.

Fucking men and their fucking jealous tempers.

RIP Annabelle.

ILuvBirdsEye · 09/04/2019 18:18

Sad Angry Flowers RIP Annabelle

falling from top of tower block silly woman... what did she do that for? Hmm

In case it's not clear, I am Hmm at the reporting not poor Annabelle who was no doubt pushed or thrown.

JessicaWakefieldSV · 09/04/2019 18:49

I feel really helpless when I read stuff like this. I saw NZ media refer to domestic abuse as an ‘off field incident’, as the guy played rugby.
My Dad was never held responsible for my stepmothers suicide, brought on by hideous horrible abuse. He isolated her completely on their remote farm for at least 7 months. I just cannot stand women dying like this. Sad

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JessicaWakefieldSV · 09/04/2019 18:51

I’d like to add the link to Jean Hatchets Ride For Murdered Women find.

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XXcstatic · 09/04/2019 18:58

That's awful, Jessica - sorry for your loss Flowers

JessicaWakefieldSV · 09/04/2019 19:02

XXcstatic thank you. She was a lovely woman.

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Ereshkigal · 09/04/2019 19:03

This is a similar case where a young woman, Jourdain John-Baptiste fell from a balcony with her partner present that the CPS wouldn't prosecute which is being challenged by Jourdain's mother, and the brilliant Centre for Women's Justice. There was a hearing last week and arguments were put for the decision not to prosecute to be reconsidered. A ruling will be made at a later date.

www.leicestermercury.co.uk/news/uk-world-news/mum-whose-daughter-fell-flat-2723991

I dont want to put the crowdfunding link because of MN rules but it's easy to find if anyone did want to donate.

Ereshkigal · 09/04/2019 19:04

So sorry for your loss Jessica Thanks

JessicaWakefieldSV · 09/04/2019 19:12

Ereshkigal thank you. And thank you for that link, what an awful tragedy and completely outrageous they didn’t prosecute. I’ll absolutely help them.

I wish there was more I could do. Set up a refuge on every corner? I wish Sad

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TangyToms · 09/04/2019 19:22

Fucking awful Sad my abusive ex held me over the railing of our 12th floor balcony...I will never forget the fear I felt, I'm terrified of heights now. RIP Annabelle Flowers I hope the fucker that done this gets a lengthy sentence...but I doubt it Angry

JessicaWakefieldSV · 09/04/2019 19:26

TangyToms oh my god, I am so sorry. That must of been terrifying. I hope you’re okay now. I have bad anxiety and claustrophobia from my fathers horrible tempers, I can’t imagine what you went through. So sorry Flowers

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pombear · 09/04/2019 19:46

To Jessica and Tangy Flowers

If this thread was truly to take off, to represent in real time what happens to women, it would go too quickly to offer flowers (a minimal emoji to give the biggest empathy you could imagine) to all of you. So the flowers stand for all those women, and their family, friends and lovers who have been harmed by the same violence.

JessicaWakefieldSV · 09/04/2019 19:56

pombear Thank you x

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ScrimshawTheSecond · 09/04/2019 19:59

Flowers for Annabelle, and everyone else who hears the echo of this in their lives.

JessicaWakefieldSV · 09/04/2019 20:23

Thank you Scrimshaw

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TangyToms · 09/04/2019 20:30

Thank you for your kind words. I'm doing ok thanks...Flowers for all whose lives have been blighted by these abusive cunts.

Annasgirl · 09/04/2019 21:22

Oh to all of you on this thread who have experienced such violence and to Annabelle, my thoughts are with you all.

caramelwaffle · 10/04/2019 06:52
Flowers
JessicaWakefieldSV · 10/04/2019 07:51

kareningalasmith.com/counting-dead-women/

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vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 10/04/2019 12:06

Karen Ingala Smith is amazing.

And Jean Hatchet.

JessicaWakefieldSV · 10/04/2019 12:08

They are. I give what I can to Jeans fundraising. I would like to know of other genuine charities that are for women only, who are victims of DV & harassment. I want to help women have options, safe options.

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Lokidokiartichoki · 10/04/2019 12:13

This is awful.

My cousin was murdered by her partner, who then killed himself. No justice.

I wasn’t aware of Jean Hatchets go fund me but will donate on payday in my cousins name. Thank you for sharing the link.

JessicaWakefieldSV · 10/04/2019 12:14

Lokidokiartichoki

I’m so sorry Flowers thank you for donating.

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