But I have often departed from left wing friends on certain issues. I have two close friends that I cannot even raise this with, as I think they will be on board with the TRA ideology, and I can’t bear to deal with it.
Same here. One of my dear friends (though I don't see her often, she lives in a far-off country but we keep in touch via Facebook) has a transgender son. . Throughout the years, my friend's adult daughter has had serious mental problems. When I last saw my friend, two years ago, she told me that her daughter was now a transman, but still had problems and that transitioning wasn't the answer.
Recently, though, she posted a FB meme to the effect that being transgender was like a tin of corn carrying a label of pears inside and outside don't match. It means, basically, that she is now on board that her daughter is now a man. I can't, I simply can't discuss this with her and it's one of the reasons I haven't "outed" myself as GC on FB along with a host of other American "woke" friends whom I've never met, but they don't matter as much. I just don't want to fall out with this one friend. It's such a loaded, personal topic.
Another friend in her 70's has a gay son who is a big part of the Berlin gay scene, and she and him are very close. I have almost no doubt that he would be part of the Berlin TG arty-farty woke set, and she always agrees with him -- she considers herself to be extremely liberal and free-thinking. Again: this is a close friend I just don't want to argue with so I avoid coming out.
Isn't it strange that we are the ones using the words "coming out" when it's really just about expressing an opinion as opposed to our sexuality, "gender identity", etc!
I've never had to hide my opinion before. I'm pretty outspoken about most issues. But this...
I've always been on the left. Heck, my dad was a Marxist and raised me with leftist and atheist slogans and though I grew up to reject much of his stances, I've always, always voted for left parties (in Germany).
Transideology has really broken the spell.