There’s a distinct whiff of old-fashioned, burn’em at the stake, commentary coming through.
For example:
“Plus it exposes your followers to them. It's best to refute them in a separate comment so as to not get drawn into the devil's dance.”
Bursting into a meeting wasn’t nice. It goes against all our socialisation. The men are outraged because women didn’t know their place and penetrated (deliberate) the bastions of power without permission.
This is not a war that will be won with tea and biscuits. Men are in the process of removing the few protections women have fought for. They’re not doing it for the right to express themselves freely, but out of a deep-seated, long-standing, culture-wide resentment of women’s rights.
And the first of those rights they want to remove is the right to name ourselves. Adam’s Task was the naming of animals, and in the naming he gained sovereignty over them. If we allow men to name us, to take all meaning from the words woman and female, the patriarchy is asserting ownership.
We’re not going to polite the opposition into justice.