The boy didn't seek out victims to abuse, he didn't escalate his behaviour, he doesn't appear to be a threat to others
How does anyone know this? No one can know this.
What expert opinions did the sheriff seek to help him form his opinion that the young man is neither a paedophile nor a risk? The families are highly unlikely to the expertise necessary.
The SOR seems perfectly suitable here. It will stop a man who was guilty of sexually touching the intimate genitalia of prepubescent child (surely by any definition that is an act of paedophile - I don't think 15 year old boys are routinely going around doing this even when they may be being sexually coercive to older girls), from taking jobs where he can work with, be alone with, vulnerable people.
He can do other jobs. If the Sheriff thinks so highly of him, he can recommend him to all his friends and family so he can get a job where he will be less of a risk to children and have less opportunities to groom children.
Being on the SOR does not preclude other forms of rehabilitation, nor would it be for life.
I know perfectly well that paedophiles and abusive men are not caricatures or easy to spot. It is precisely because he can now just go and be another man or a paedophile hiding in plain sight that he needs to be on the register.
By treating victims of sexual assault as being scarred beyond belief and traumatised for life, is, in my opinion, sexist and stems from the view of women as fragile, as possessions, as being no longer 'pure'.
Blistory That is one of the most misogynist, minimising statements I have ever read.
Having one's body and boundaries violated, whether or not you realise it fully at the time is serious and has many and varied repercussions. There is no right or wrong way to react to it. Experiencing trauma or being tramatised has nothing to do with being fragile and everything to do with the pernicious and insidious nature and effects of sexual abuse. Even if this girl manages to come out of this experience feeling mentally strong and well (and I hope she does) then it will be in spite of what he did to her, and after her emotional hard work, and it is no reason not to punish and sanction the people/ men who abuse.
Knee jerk, reaction. Piss off.