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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

New Zealand: Bill on transgender birth certificates creates big issues

194 replies

TimeLady · 21/11/2018 19:35

Sounds familiar....

www.stuff.co.nz/the-press/news/108740984/Bill-on-transgender-birth-certificates-creates-big-issues

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FWRLurker · 22/11/2018 03:48

Sorry to double post

To me the important thing is this: I believe I have nothing more in common with women as a group than I do with men as a group EXCEPT as it relates to our shared biology (and the associated cultural trappings).

I have a lot more in common with certain men than I do with certain women.

What do I have in common with trans women as a group that I don’t also have in common with men as a group??

If this question can’t be answered I’m stuck. Can you answer it?

Scrumplestiltskin · 22/11/2018 04:10

I'm absolutely not saying that an intersex person and a transgender person are the same. I only mentioned intersex examples to illustrate that biological sex alone can't be used to define woman or man.
In intersex people then no, karyotype is not enough in and of itself, because due to disorders of sexual development, intersex people have a phenotype that differs notably from their genotype, from birth.
Trans people are not intersex. They have normal reproductive systems. They are not in the messy grey area that intersex people are in, because their sex from birth is normal and established.
So using intersex people as an argument doesn't work. Because trans people don't have a DSD, they are born with normally sexed bodies.

I said previously that I struggle to define the word woman. I'm clear that it includes transwomen though.
That's not possible. If you cannot define the parameters of "woman" you cannot possibly know whether transwomen fit them. If you cannot coherently define what a woman is I'm afraid you have no argument.

Roystonv · 22/11/2018 04:34

Very powerful post materialist

VovoBickie · 22/11/2018 05:04

People with disorders/variations of sexual development don't negate the fact that males and females exist. Nor are they a third sex. Nor do they prove that males are females. That 1.6% figure includes males with kleinfelters. Males with a chromosomal disorder, but still males. Intersex people are not your gotcha. I wish we could stop using them as talking points in this discussion. I feel bad for them constantly getting dragged into this.

StarsAndMoonlight · 22/11/2018 05:43

Julj Why do we separate by sex in the first place?

I was reminded of this yesterday whilst supervising 9 and 10 year olds getting changed for PE. They get changed in separate areas and both boys and girls are as concerned about being seen partially undressed by their opposite sex peers. Very.

We separate for dignity, privacy, safety, to accommodate biological/physical difference and to meet biological/physical needs.

There is no other reason.

I don't have much in common with many other women I meet on a day to day basis. But when I'm getting undressed; in hospital; sleeping etc, I still want to be accommodated with them rather than men I might have more in common with.

julj70 · 22/11/2018 05:55

Scrumplestiltskin - I didn't say that trans people are in the same grey area, would indeed never do so, just that there is one. And the existence of one undermines the concept of neat binary boxes for biological sex.

It's perfectly valid to say that a particular subset is within a set without having to fully define the boundaries of the superset.

I don't think I've heard a cohesive definition of woman from you either. So far you've variously differentiated by:

Genitalia
Chromosomes
Assignment at birth

Others have added:

The absence of a penis
Female socialisation

Each of which, when taken individually, can be a bit problematic. Do you want to hang your hat on one in particular, or is it more of a duck test with a self-selecting subset of feminists as the arbiters?

FWRLurker - I'm appropriating nothing from intersex people, simply pointing out to people who invoke biology that biology isn't neat or simple. As I said earlier, IMHO prevalence is largely irrelevant to this argument. A small grey area is still a grey area, even when its existence is inconvenient to your argument.

julj70 · 22/11/2018 06:11

You make a good point about the original reason for separating by sex.

Is that universal, or a convention of western society?

Scrumplestiltskin · 22/11/2018 06:13

Scrumplestiltskin - I didn't say that trans people are in the same grey area, would indeed never do so, just that there is one. And the existence of one undermines the concept of neat binary boxes for biological sex.
No, actually it doesn't when it comes to people who actually do fit in the "binary box." The existence of people with disorders of sex development (that usually result in sterility in fact,) has no impact on people with normal sex development, or relevance to them.

It's perfectly valid to say that a particular subset is within a set without having to fully define the boundaries of the superset.

You haven't defined anything. As far as I know, you define woman as "someone who wears pink". You haven't defined subset, set, or superset. You've given us less than nothing.

I don't think I've heard a cohesive definition of woman from you either. So far you've variously differentiated by:
Genitalia
Chromosomes
Assignment at birth

Chromosomes dictate reproductive systems and genitalia, except in the case of intersex people, where birth assignment based on phenotype or condition is what dictates the sex class they are placed into. Seems coherent and cohesive to me.
Chromosomes dictate reproductive systems and genitalia, which in turn dictates sex. (After all, sex only exists for the purpose of reproduction, doesn't it?)
Additionally, there are intersex people who do not fit either category neatly at birth - who are the exception to the chromosomal and reproductive system rule due to their disorders.
Females are also not born with a penis (chromosomes = reproductive sex,) and in our current society receive female socialisation. So again, what's not coherent about that?

Scrumplestiltskin · 22/11/2018 06:15

Is that universal, or a convention of western society?

The segregation of the sexes is fairly universal. See: the segregation of menstruating females globally in the majority of cultures at certain points in time, ranging from total segregation to rules around interaction.

OnTheDarkSideOfTheSpoon · 22/11/2018 06:25

Some people are born with no limbs. This proves that having legs is a spectrum and that a grey area definitely exists and the existence of one undermines the concept of humans being bipedal. Therefore even though I was assigned as having two legs at birth, I actually identify as only having half of one and therefore want access to disabled loos, the Paralympics, a blue badge and disability-related benefits without needing anything other than my say so to go on.

Please don’t erase my humanity by insisting on reducing me down to how many legs I have - there are so many more things that contribute to one’s disability and frankly I think it’s hateful to add to the struggles I feel being trans-disabled, even more so if you actually have the cis-privilege of having a disability and are using it to wield privilege over your trans-disabled siblings.

CelticKiwi · 22/11/2018 06:35

New Zealand's only transsexual Minister of Parliament, Georgina Beyer, has spoken to the media here and says she has concerns around self id and the way in which trans rights activists are pushing for it. I hope they listen to her, I really do. She's said that it's wrong to force women to accept male bodies in their spaces and the trans rights movement will get a lot more postive response if they work with women instead of against them. I wish the woke as fuck millenials will look to her and listen, they might learn something.

DisrespectfulAdultFemale · 22/11/2018 06:42

For the hard-of-thinking (or the poster who just appeared in this thread for the first time, whichever you prefer), let me put in very very simple terms that even they should be able to understand:

Transwomen are not women.

Women do not have penises.

Women are adult human females.

DisrespectfulAdultFemale · 22/11/2018 06:47

Is that universal, or a convention of western society?

Do you not know that some non-western societies have initiation rites for boys? That some non-Western societies give rights to men but not to women? That Muslims and Jews separate men and women and (in some instances) give them different 'levels' of rights? Are you completely uninformed about female infanticide in China, India and Pakistan?

DisrespectfulAdultFemale · 22/11/2018 06:48

It's perfectly valid to say that a particular subset is within a set without having to fully define the boundaries of the superset.

No, it's not. If you can't define the superset you can't define the subset.

Materialist · 22/11/2018 06:49

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SaskiaRembrandtWasFramed · 22/11/2018 06:50

*Some people are born with no limbs. This proves that having legs is a spectrum and that a grey area definitely exists and the existence of one undermines the concept of humans being bipedal. Therefore even though I was assigned as having two legs at birth, I actually identify as only having half of one and therefore want access to disabled loos, the Paralympics, a blue badge and disability-related benefits without needing anything other than my say so to go on.

Please don’t erase my humanity by insisting on reducing me down to how many legs I have - there are so many more things that contribute to one’s disability and frankly I think it’s hateful to add to the struggles I feel being trans-disabled, even more so if you actually have the cis-privilege of having a disability and are using it to wield privilege over your trans-disabled siblings.*

julj70 would you agree with this woman that she is disabled in exactly the same way as a cis-disabled person?
www.telegraph.co.uk/news/health/news/10185741/Woman-wants-to-be-disabled-due-to-rare-condition.html

Eketahuna · 22/11/2018 07:02

There is a growing group of gender critical people trying to inject some sanity into the situation. Unfortunately, due to the smallness of the country only a brave few feel comfortable being "out" under their real names just yet.

speakupforwomen.nz/
Twitter: twitter.com/SpeakUp4WomenNZ
Facebook: www.facebook.com/SpeakUp4WomenNZ/

Materialist · 22/11/2018 07:22

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Micke · 22/11/2018 07:31

Isn't that a rather large decision to leave to a cursory glance by a midwife

ROFL - even untrained people, given a gander at someone's genitals, can get someone's sex right more than 99% of the time. So a trained midwife doing it? Yeah, I think they can be trusted.

nottakingthisanymore · 22/11/2018 07:32

What do we call that group of humans that belong to the group that have the potential to gestate and birth live young? What do we call that group that make up about half the population? They are different to the other half. If only we had a simple word that we could use to describe them.

OnTheDarkSideOfTheSpoon · 22/11/2018 07:33

It was a cursory glance from a midwife that violently assigned me as bipedal rather than someone with the inner essence of a person with half a leg

DisrespectfulAdultFemale · 22/11/2018 07:47

Isn't that a rather large decision to leave to a cursory glance by a midwife

I can just imagine the conversation now:

Midwife: You know what, I'm down this week's quota for boys and it's lunchtime so what the hell. I don't need more than a cursory glance to coercively assign it a male gender.

Mother: But, she doesn't have a penis! Or testicles! She has a vulva.

Midwife: Shaddap. Congratulations on your new baby son.

Mother: But it's a girl!

Midwife: Shut up, you bigot.

FermatsTheorem · 22/11/2018 07:51

All these epicycles within epicycles attempts to persuade us that sex isn't binary and that this somehow has something to do with trans issues always make the same two fallacious moves, and try to present these fallacious moves as gotchas.

They start from the correct premise that both the chromosomes and the embryological pathways controlling the development of the reproductive system are complex and that there's therefore scope for lots of things to go wrong. (Remarkably, given this huge scope for things going wrong, it works out just fine 99.9% of the time unless you artificially inflate the percentages by including minor cosmetic differences which most geneticists and embryologists don't categorise as intersex conditions).

They then make the first fallacious step - that the existence of intersex conditions means that ordinary members of the public therefore struggle to correctly work out sex in the other 99.9% of cases (see for example that fatuous statement in parliament yesterday about women with beards).

They then add the further fallacious statement that this has anything whatsoever to do with being trans. Trans people are no more or less likely to be intersex than the general population - in fact as far as I can tell the typical late-transitioning transwomen usually does so after fathering several children.

TLDR - women don't have penises.

KristinaM · 22/11/2018 07:57

Grin at PainintheEar.

I don't think that human rights are a zero-sum game though - the addition of rights to some humans needn't be to the detriment of others

I don’t want to share a communal changing room with people who have a penis. I’d don’t care what they wear or how they identify .

I have a right to privacy. Why do you want to take that right away from me Julj70 ?

FermatsTheorem · 22/11/2018 08:04

That idiotic cake meme on the internet has such a lot to answer for (the "human rights are not like cake..." meme). Of course rights can conflict. Abortion - either the pro choice people are correct that a woman's right to bodily autonomy is the more important right, or the anti abortion campaigners are correct that the foetus has a right to life and this is the primary consideration. But you can't have both a non-permanence woman ,10 weeks after she conceived, and a live foetus.

Similarly, you either have sex segregated spaces or "gender" segregated spaces, but they can't be both.