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National Autistic Society and Mermaids [Title edited by MNHQ]

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GColdtimer · 04/10/2018 12:56

My friend just posted this on Facebook this morning. She isn't on MN so I have her permission to share. She would really like more people, especially people with ASD or who have children with ASD, to write to NAS thanking them for their willingness to listen and their agreement that Mermaids is not reputable.

This is really great news so please can we keep this bumped and shared. Thank you.

If posters on the SEN board would like to share that would also be great (if appropriate).

Dear XXXX ,

Thank you for your feedback regarding the Gender and autism page on our website.

I’m writing to let you know that I’ve raised your concerns regarding Mermaids UK, one of the organisations we link to on our Gender and autism page, with a number of teams within the National Autistic Society. In light of the concerns raised in your message, and of other feedback that we have received, we have decided to remove all links to Mermaids UK from our website, while we take the time to consult with relevant professionals and to reconsider which organisations we wish to place links to on our website.

As such, our Web Team are working to remove all links to Mermaids UK from our website as soon as possible. Please do be aware, however, that, as we are currently in the process of updating our website to reflect our new branding and organisational identity, it may take a few days for this to be actioned.

Thank you again for bringing this to our attention, and I hope that you are satisfied with the actions we are taking in light of the concerns that you have raised.

Kind regards,

National Autistic Society

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Velella · 04/10/2018 13:21

If anyone else with a child with Autism is thinking of writing to them there is always the case where Mermaids were ordered by a judge to stay away from a child.

Noqont · 04/10/2018 13:22

Thank you op.

Velella · 04/10/2018 13:23

It would be great if organisations could wake up to the danger of Mermaids and soon. It might take some of the wind out of the sails of the forthcoming Mermaids promotional series on ITV

pennydrew · 04/10/2018 13:27

@Velella thank you, just added that

PerfPower · 04/10/2018 13:28

I've written, comparing the sterilisation/mutilation of healthy young bodies for being gender non conforming, with lobotomies for promiscuous women in the 50s/60s. I think it will be looked back on with as much horror.

Melamin · 04/10/2018 13:29

I am glad of that.

It is clear that Mermaids has no understanding of autism. They are a one trick pony, and only 'understand' anything in terms of how it can be useful to them.

Redshoeblueshoe · 04/10/2018 13:29

Brilliant news.
A very big thank you to your friend.

silentcrow · 04/10/2018 13:32

That's excellent news, thank you for sharing. Is there a statement generally available? It would be really helpful for those of us in schools to counter the affirmation narrative.

BlackeyedSusan · 04/10/2018 13:32

thank you to your friend. gnc autisitic parent (possibly) with gnc autisitic dd (possibly)

stuppidly long waiting lists for assessment.

BeyondAdultHumanFemale · 04/10/2018 13:33

This is brilliant. I'm gonna write and thank them :)

pennydrew · 04/10/2018 13:34

oh the assessment wait is totally unacceptable. Its quicker to get reassignment surgery.

SturdyEarmuffs · 04/10/2018 13:34

There is an excellent blog/article on the transgender trend website on the complexity of autism being a factor in any child who claims to be transgender. Really worth a read.

https://www.transgendertrend.com/speech-language-assessment-autism-and-transition/

GenderApostate · 04/10/2018 13:36

I’m really wary of putting this on twitter, although mimmymoo has probably already reported back to Stasi headquarters. The NAS will get a massive pile on when this gets out and will probably capitulate after receiving ‘guidance’ .

pennydrew · 04/10/2018 13:38

For anyone writing, it might be a good idea to talk about how the topic affects you or if a parent, your autistic child. For instance, I added what my daughter shared with me on what her and her autistic friends think of the whole gender issue and why the fuck they're being dragged into it... why they think it might be affecting girls, and then girls on the spectrum more, if it is... and how they are affected by social media conversations about it ie they felt it is private, complex and discussions linking the two should come from professionals- not charities with someones Mum who did something illegal fronting them. I reiterated the importance of expert and unbiased support, and of being careful regarding how we all discuss this, in the absence of conclusive evidence etc

pennydrew · 04/10/2018 13:38

thats a good point re: pile-on

buckeejit · 04/10/2018 13:40

Brilliant!

Juells · 04/10/2018 13:40

Yes, they'll be re-educated out of wrongthink

heresyandwitchcraft · 04/10/2018 13:40

Excellent news! Thanks to you and your friend for sharing! Star
HUGE thanks to the National Autistic Society for taking action like this!
Flowers

tobee · 04/10/2018 13:41

I really hope they don't change their minds on this one!

I will pass this onto my autistic adult dd. She's very much gc. She doesn't do lying.

Ali1cedowntherabbithole · 04/10/2018 13:43

Thank you for sharing OP. I hope the NAS are widely praised for their stance.

lilllil · 04/10/2018 13:43

As an autistic woman I am absolutely thrilled that they're properly thinking this through. God I hope they don't just reverse and push harder though.

DayMay · 04/10/2018 13:45

Good, the sea witch has stolen enough from Autistic people, NAS just gave them back their voice.

pennydrew · 04/10/2018 13:46

I would, however, be even more surprised than usual if the NAS gave in to any demands. Its not their way.

ToeToToe · 04/10/2018 13:48

Really good news.

DayMay · 04/10/2018 13:50

Women, Mums, autistic people and lesbians have rebelled.

Grin
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