I didn't click it either.
Agree that gay porn is also a different ballgame.
Mainstream het porn is misogynistic racist nasty stuff.
And boys get their to do list from it, and then try and persuade girls to "let them".
When I was young it was fairly tame stuff the boys badgered you about.
These days it's a fucking nightmare.
They need to have porn education in schools. And I don't mean talking about how normal and sexy it is and how all 14yo will have seen it and know about all the acts that are depicted. Like that so called "resource" on the other thread.