Very few posters here.
You know what's happened to me? Years ago I thought men raping children was rare. And gangs of men doing it was vanishingly rare. I worked for SS and realised it was more common. Then the Catholic church and residential school and the BBC and on and on. Oh the charities. And it's everywhere, Australia, Thailand, US, Canada... No one is immune. Even the 'nice' countries.
I have no clue how to stop men raping children. They are everywhere and in every walk of life and they're in charge. And every time someone on AIBU is worried about leaving their child with an unknown man, everyone is all, "oh no, you're paranoid, you see bogeymen everywhere". Nope. It's really fucking common.