And that 1% is the few times when I've been asked by other women for tissue or tampons or whatever
Hahahaha! no. Only in your imagination. In my thirty-five plus years of being old enough to be asked for a tampon by a stranger, it's happened twice.
You may think you pass in the ladies loos, but what you don't realise, because you've clearly never let it bother you is that women see you, clock you're male and the stats will go something like this:
some of them will just vanish. You won't see them go. You won't know why - but it's your presence. Those are the traumatised women who simply cannot bear to share intimate spaces with males, or the religious women who are completely mortified by doing so. They'll never say anything to you. They're too afraid. They will be thinking about the changes they can make in their lives to avoid this situation happening again - their lives may get smaller.
Some women will feel uncomfortable but tell themselves to be kind, or to be cool, or that they are still safe, and that your struggles are greater than theirs. They're still uncomfortable. But they won't challenge you not because they're happy that you're there, but because they habitually won't challenge males transgressing boundaries, because experience has often taught them that this escalates the situation and female socialisation makes it difficult (I am in this category),
Some of them will be so uncomfortable that they'll challenge you.
Some of them won't care that you're there. It doesn't bother them.
Why do you assume that all women are in the fourth category? What do you think the percentages are? Has it ever occurred to you to find out?
If you want to identify as a woman, you could at least start by identifying with us.