No problem, Italian. I will try my best to answer your points.
I think a lot of organisatins are trying to make money, some providing a service are trying to save money. None have time for this type of 'navel gazing', no matter how well intentioned.
They would have to if it was the law and they could be sued for failing to protect women. There are lots of legal hoops businesses have to jump through and there is no option not to do it. At the moment, it is difficult for a woman to sue on the basis that there are no single sex facilities. If there were law to mandate single sex spaces in some cases and a duty on service providers to assess whether there should be a single sex space, this would be much much easier.
The AGP point, no it was not directed at you, but I see this every single day on twitter- feminists embroiled in debates about what makes a real woman and references to AGP and perverts etc. It was a general remark rather than aimed at anyone specific.
I don't agree getting a GRC is cumbersome, and I'm increasingly thinking we should do away with it and strengthen protections for any 'gender' presentations. Self Id is not a good idea for anyone at all. It devalues what being trans or female is and muddies the waters.
To be honest, I agree that self-ID is not good for trans people either. For feminists, I don't think self-ID itself will have the impact people predict- it is everything surrounding it- the fact that service providers often don't even consider the need for single-sex spaces. On a symbolic level, I agree that it muddies the waters in terms of what is a man and what is a woman. However, I think that it has gone too far to completely retreat, because the UK is part of a wider network of countries that all allow legal change of gender and it would be extremely difficult to back out of that. I would rather be realistic.
Get a female passport
No, you can get a female passport without having a GRC. That is in fact one of the requirements to get a GRC- obtaining ID in the new gender. I am sure Jane Fae has a female passport.
Then why are they campaging for self id?
A small group of them are. I think for the majority of them, it doesn't make much difference because they can still get all their ID docs and stuff without it. I also think that for many trans people it is a symbolic point- the fact that being trans is medicalised and that it is scrutinised by the state (in the form of doctors). I may be proved wrong and there may be a huge surge in applications though- who knows.
If it is not worth having then why want it
Most of them don't currently bother (because it's not really worth having).
I am suspcicous of anyone who wants 'us' (society) to make a law that says any male who identifies as female is one. For like a 100 reasons. Actually 3.5 billion reasons
We already have a law saying this is possible. I think it is unlikely that this would be repealed, given the UK's international obligations. It's not about 'wanting' this- it is about looking at the most effective way of protecting women. Given that I don't think that the law will stop permitting men from being women, I say let them become women only in name and retain protections for biological females (as they have done in Ireland).
But how you gonna prove you can exclude anyone? The practical problem of proof is of course difficult. In a legal sense, if the legislation expressly protected single sex spaces (rather than giving service providers the option to exclude if they want to), then it should be relatively straightforward. Yes, there may be a tiny number of people who pass convincingly as the opposite sex, but they are unlikely to be much of an issue anyway if they pass convincingly and presumably nobody would know or be bothered by them.