Okay, well, first of all, you have me bang to rights on the self-googling. Sorry. I’ve just joined up in the hope of learning more about current debates on this side of the conversation.
This isn’t really about me, but FYI a lot of the links above are based on false information- Lisa Muggeridge in particular has had a strange obsession with me for years- we used to be friends. I can’t stop people saying untrue things but just so you know, that’s not the real me.
Anyway. Offred, thank you for being kind. And I’d speak up for Owen as well- he faces even more harassment from the right than i do and I think as a consequence he can sometime come across rather stiff in person but I assure you he’s a goodun.
Anyway.
Look, it is my sincere belief that many of the people in this conversation are acting in good faith, and I would be concerned myself if the things being discussed here- lesbians being forced into having sex with anyone they don’t want to, denial of the material basis of women’s oppression, attempts to prey on vulnerable women in safe spaces- were actually happening. As far as my research as well as personal experience has taken me, they simply aren’t. I see a lot of untruths being spread. And those untruths are doing real harm both to individuals and, I believe, to feminism as a whole.
I’ve been a radical feminist since I was eleven years old and will be one for as long as I live. Part of the vehemence of those tweets, to be honest, was that I see a movement I care about and have dedicated years of my life to turning on vulnerable people I care about.
I have friends on the phone in tears because of the things being said to them by women online in the name of feminism. I don’t want to go into details because I’m not here to shock but I have myself been shocked.
Anyway thay’s my POV here. I’d be happy to discuss more. L x