Once again, this boils down to conflict of interests whereby women want to have separate terms that denote categorisation by sex and gender identity and trans people want to have terms that combine them.
I do find myself frustrated by intolerance expressed with regard to people having these interests. Women should be free to express why they want what they want and trans people should be free to express why they want what they want. We really should be able to have discussions about differing/ competing interests without it becoming a slanging match.
I think trans advocates become fearful and then angry (and sometimes aggressive) because they know that women's requests are likely to be considered to be reasonable if they get to be properly heard. I think women become frustrated and angry because their voices are often not heard because they are dismissed as being 'anti-trans' in advance of being fully expressed.
We need to continue to work confidently and persistently IRL to ensure women's voices are heard. Social media and Mumsnet is great for awareness raising but it doesn't seem to be hitting the spot in terms of getting heard by the people who can influence the outcome of the consultation, once if takes place. I am confident that the many persuasive activities that are going on IRL will make headway.
The delay in the consultation about the GRA is in our favour because it has given us a lot more time to get organised and beaver away. I think trans activists are likely to become more and more aggressive in trying to stop women's voices being heard, but the cat is now out of the bag and we are being heard so we need to keep on keeping on and we will be heard!