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Ulster Rugby Rape Trial - Not guilty to all charges

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Quimby · 28/03/2018 12:35

Verdict just returned
Not guilty to all four accused, all unanimous decisions.

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DisturblinglyOrangeScrambleEgg · 28/03/2018 12:37

Bloody hell.

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Freshlylaidterf · 28/03/2018 12:39

Just as you think womens voices are being heard with the warboys news , now this.

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DisturblinglyOrangeScrambleEgg · 28/03/2018 12:42

I'm fed up of this idea that women walk around naturally consenting and we have to prove that we didn't (which, despite that not officially being the case, is the practical effect of rape laws).

So women are raped, and the rapists go free because it's better that women fear being raped than men fear being accused of rape. How is that civilised?

I would like a card, that I can carry, that I can wear as a badge, clearly stating that I don not consent to any sexual contact with anyone, so that it's clearly, obviously rape if someone has sex with me and I report them.

That way, there's no confusion. If it wasn't rape, I won't be reporting you, so you have no problem. It's about time Men took on some responsibility for this.

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Westworld · 28/03/2018 12:42

Absolutely disgraceful.
What an awful country to have to raise daughters in.
I knew from the start they would get off.

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ellaoldie · 28/03/2018 12:42

Very very surprised.
I"ve been following this case and the woman's account seemed very convincing to me.

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Collidascope · 28/03/2018 12:45

Well, that's a crash back to earth after the John Worboys decision. Poor, poor woman, going through all that.

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MayFayner · 28/03/2018 12:46

The jury were told to "draw a distinction between consent and submission" and this is the result.

Well. I believe her.

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Justanotherzombie · 28/03/2018 12:46

We simply don't know. The only thing we're sure of is that these lads were/are jerks.

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rockshandy · 28/03/2018 12:47

If she should ever read this...

I believe you.

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anneoneill · 28/03/2018 12:53

Remember you are discussing innocent men before you go committing libel here, folks. Unless you have very deep pockets.

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sleepyhead · 28/03/2018 12:54

I believe her. But her first instinct was the right one unfortunately - there was little hope of a conviction.

Revolting, revolting men.

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DramaAlpaca · 28/03/2018 12:55

I believe her.

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sleepyhead · 28/03/2018 12:57

I know what kind of men they are from the words out of their own mouths, from the words in the messages they sent to each other. By their own behaviour after the event.

It may not have amounted to enough for a criminal conviction, but I see them. I know what they are and how they treat women.

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rockshandy · 28/03/2018 12:57

We are discussing a case in which the jury had to believe beyond ALL reasonable doubt that they were guilty if they were to find them guilty.

The jury had a doubt, and so they did the correct thing and found them not guilty.

I have no problem understanding that, and accepting that, and it is possible for me to accept that while also believing her.

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treaclesoda · 28/03/2018 12:57

I feel sick. Physically sick.

And the rape apologists on Twitter want her hung drawn and quartered. Angry

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Balonder · 28/03/2018 12:58

I am horrified. I have just watched my 7yo DD go outside to play and I have realised that I don't know how to teach her that society values her, that the law can't protect her

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rockshandy · 28/03/2018 12:59

YY treaclesoda. The comments on facebook have left me feeling ill.

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Sailorjerrycherry · 28/03/2018 12:59

And people wonder why women are so reluctant to report rapes.

Heartbreaking.

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sleepyhead · 28/03/2018 12:59

I couldn't, in all honesty, ever encourage a woman to report a rape. It's just not worth it.

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Snowqueeny75 · 28/03/2018 12:59

Me too treacle

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TheVeryThing · 28/03/2018 13:00

I feel sick too, it so deeply depressing that women have minimal protection from rape under the legal system.

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fia101 · 28/03/2018 13:00

Are any of us surprised with the verdict? Really?

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pallisers · 28/03/2018 13:01

I'm not surprised at the acquittal

I would do anything I could to stop my daughters reporting a rape.

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Vickxy · 28/03/2018 13:03

Not surprised at all sadly. I hope shes ok, and I believe her, for all thats worth.

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