I am very sorry for your experiences Lola and I am in no way casting doubt on your lived experience.
I find it offensive when people try to "not all Pakistanis are like that, all men do it."
I really hope this wasn't aimed at me, because it was absolutely not what I said or what I meant. I believe I was clear, but in case I wasn't I will reiterate. Muslim men, most of whom come from Pakistani backgrounds have groomed and exploited girls.
What I am saying, and this is based on other people's lived experience of being exploited and abused by these men, is that men of all colours and creeds then pay those Pakistani men to abuse the girls that they have groomed and exploited.
This is not deflection at all. It is a clear statement that if not for the Pakistani men who groomed and exploited them, those girls would not have been further abused by all those other men who pay the girls' exploiters for the privilege.