I want to hear what their kids have to say in ten years.
The whole Kardashian Jenner situation highlighted how awful this is for the wife and I think most of his stepkids aren't talking to him. But Kris his ex wife was given a hard time by some people for 'not supporting him'. His own daughter said that she saw him dressed up when she was young and it confused her and she knew it was a secret. Family secrets are usually unhealthy .
In this situation she says the kids are fine because kids are not prejudiced, but it's not about that. I'm not an expert on child development but I know that one of the first things a child learns about identity is the difference between male and female. I have a memory as a baby, I couldn't have been more than 18 months and I checked it out with my dad and he confirmed the facts and was amazed I remembered, I remember thinking clearly SHE and HE about my mum and dad.
If you ask and adult or a teenager to describe themselves to an alien they will usually start with their sex. I know it must be very hard for those with gender identity issues, but the way this is being actively promoted and common sense has been shit down, I just think we are heading for a lot of big problems as a society some time soon, and that's without the men in female spaces issue.