Tigers - sorry you can tell to get lost but here’s my tuppence worth
I let my 8 year year old dd wear what she likes. At the moment it’s hoodies, baggy jeans and t shirts. Nothing pink sparkly or girly. She hates skinny jeans - which are all that is available but girls her age so we shop in the boys section. Boys school shorts, boys socks, boys trainers.
She plays football for a girls team and this has made all the difference for her when trying g to negotiate a gender identity she is happy with. There are plenty of female coaches in jeans, hoodies etc who are not stereotypically girly -although most are not afraid to put on a bit of makeup either.
There are lots of ways to be a girl - that’s what I tell her all the time.
Our society has a lot to answer for.