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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Horizon programme on transgender

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Pemba · 26/09/2017 19:46

www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b096k5dm

BBC Two tonight (Tuesday) 9 pm. I wonder what take they'll have on it?

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StrangeAdventure · 30/09/2017 20:58

Here's the Summary of the Parliamentary Select Committee's report. I haven't done anything to it, apart from highlighting one bit that I think might be of particular interest to morningrunner, datun, and one or two other prolific mumsnet members.

Fairness and equality are basic British values. A litmus test for any society that upholds those values is how far it protects even the most marginalised groups. Britain has been among the countries going furthest in recognising lesbian, gay and bisexual rights, but we are still failing this test in respect of trans people, despite welcome progress.

High levels of transphobia are experienced by individuals on a daily basis (including in the provision of public services)—with serious results. About half of young trans people and a third of trans adults attempt suicide. The recent deaths in custody of two trans women, and the case of a trans woman who was placed in a men’s prison, are particularly stark illustrations of the issues.

The Gender Recognition Act 2004 was pioneering but is now dated. Its medicalised approach pathologises trans identities and runs contrary to the dignity and personal autonomy of applicants. The Government must update the Act, in line with the principle of gender self-declaration.

Trans people feel strongly that the provision on spousal consent under the Marriage (Same Sex Couples) Act 2013 gives spouses an effective “veto” on gender recognition. However, marriage is a legal contract between two consenting parties, the terms of which cannot be changed without the consent of both. We do, though, take very seriously the possibility that this provision may be used by spouses with malicious intent.

Protection for trans people under the Equality Act 2010 was a huge step forward. However, the terms “gender reassignment” and “transsexual” in the Act are outdated and misleading; and may not cover wider members of the trans community. The protected characteristic should be amended to that of “gender identity”.
The NHS is letting down trans people: it is failing in its legal duty under the Equality Act. Trans people encounter significant problems in using general NHS services, due to the attitude of some clinicians and other staff who lack knowledge and understanding—and in some cases are prejudiced. The NHS is failing to ensure zero tolerance of transphobic behaviour. GPs too often lack understanding and in some cases this leads to appropriate care not being provided. A root-and-branch review must be conducted, completed and published by the NHS.

We agree with the Chair of the NHS National Clinical Reference Group for Gender Identity Services that: “not treating people [for gender dysphoria] is not a neutral act—it will do harm.” We strongly welcome the trend towards depathologising trans identities. There is a clear and strong case that delaying treatment for young people risks more harm than providing it. We are also concerned that Gender Identity Services continue to be provided as part of mental-health services, giving the impression that trans identity is a disease or disorder of the mind.

There are serious concerns about treatment protocols in Gender Identity Services, particularly regarding “Real-Life Experience” prior to genital surgery. However, we are unconvinced by the argument that the NHS should simply grant on demand whatever treatment patients request.

It is also important to build trans people’s confidence in the criminal justice system. We welcome the Government’s willingness to strengthen hate-crime legislation. The existing provisions on aggravated offences and stirring up hatred should be extended to all protected characteristics. The Government’s new hate-crime action plan must include mandatory training for police officers on transphobic hate crime; and the promotion of third-party reporting. The Government must also work with the courts to tackle the issue of trans people being “outed” inappropriately in court.

Across the board, government departments are struggling to support trans people effectively, with the 2011 Advancing Transgender Equality action plan remaining largely unimplemented. The Government must agree a new strategy which it can deliver with full cross-departmental support.

AssassinatedBeauty · 30/09/2017 21:02

@StrangeAdventure honestly, is that how you think it's best to engage with people who have concerns? You accuse them of transphobia, which means that you don't want to hear anything that's being said by anyone. Then your last sentence is a ridiculous jibe that absolutely no one here could ever be said to agree with. How do you expect people to respond to that? Presumably you don't care because you think we're all hateful transphobes.

StrangeAdventure · 30/09/2017 21:18

AssassinatedBeauty
I'm not quite sure what you mean by the first bit of your post: I am quite happy to discuss the issues, and I think I said in my first post on this thread that I was pleased it was NOT transphobic. I can see a huge difference between being concerned and being transphobic. I can understand many of the concerns that are expressed, and share some of them.
I certainly don't think you are all transphobes. But I do find it distressing that a small minority of mumsnet contributors are working so hard to turn your concerns into fears and your fears into hatred.
As for unless, of course, you subscribe to the view that the only good transsexual is a dead transsexual ... I wish I was joking. I have heard that said in complete seriousness.

AssassinatedBeauty · 30/09/2017 21:29

Do you genuinely think anyone here wishes anyone dead? Do women frequently make death threats towards transpeople? Chucking that sentence in is like throwing a grenade into the discussion. You are suggesting that people discussing here want transpeople dead. It's absurd.

Your starting point in response to measured, questioning and challenging posts is to make an accusation of transphobia, with no basis or specifics.

MightyMikey · 30/09/2017 21:40

Getting back to the programme. I did feel it gave a balanced view, showing that some people suffer from dysphoria. Showing the fear of parents for their children also very real and sad to see. No judgement from me when parents are told their child will die without hormones etc and them helping with the transition (even though I feel this is wrong for the child).
Also showing the horrific and graphic surgery.
Most online Trans forums skim over the life altering/limiting effects of SRS. Good to see an honest depiction of this.
It did also show that stereotypes were very strong (from a young age) in convincing people they are trapped in the wrong body. Long hair, pink and barbies doesn't make a girl and wanting to be more assertive and liking science doesn't mean your a boy. Be happy - be your fabulous gender non-conforming self, self acceptance is the healthy way.
FYI a huge section of crossdressers see themselves on a spectrum of Transgender and a lot do eventually go on to socially, ie non surgical, transition in later life. Unsurprisingly after they have a career, marriage and children under their belt. But if they say they're Trans then they are. So a mid life CDer is as Trans as Jazz the passing teen Trans star.
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QuentinSummers · 30/09/2017 22:00

strange your sources are contradictory. This that you said earlier Pre-surgery suicide rates vary enormously depending on which part of the population you look at, but the most widely-accepted figures are that about 40% for untreated TS is very different to the Government report, which says About half of young trans people and a third of trans adults attempt suicide..

I read earlier that female victims of domestic violence have a hugely elevated risk of Suicide. 30 women a day in this situation attempt Suicide, three women a week succeed in their attempt. Yet this is never talked about in the mainstream press.

I think the oft repeated but incorrect statement that 40% of trans people will kill themselves is scaremongering to vulnerable trans people and emotional blackmail to society at large. Not to mention the risk of suicide contagion.

AssassinatedBeauty · 30/09/2017 22:14

@StrangeAdventure, I'm not personally offended by your post, rather frustrated by it. Neither do I find the subject being discussed to be confusing or frightening.

StrangeAdventure · 30/09/2017 22:44

AssassinatedBeauty
I've just wasted an hour of my life composing a detailed PM responding to what I thought were a couple of valid points that you made earlier in this thread... and now I find that you aren't interested in reading what I actually wrote, other than to take isolated sentences out of context in order to push your own agenda.
If you had taken the trouble to look at what I wrote, you would have seen that:-
1: I suggested that even if only one trans teen had committed suicide, that was one too many. If you don't want trans people dead, then presumably you agree with me -- so what are we arguing about?
2: My starting point was to say that this thread was NOT transphobic. I made a couple of fairly mild criticisms of the programme, and provided some links/quotes to unbiassed reference sources such as the NHS and the Parliamentary Select Committee.

As I said (and as my PM to you would have proved) I am quite prepared to respond to measured questions -- even if the honest answer to some of them is "I don't know". But I am not interested in responding to people whose reaction to things they don't want to hear is the on line equivalent of a toddler's tantrum. I will simply walk away from it.

MightyMikey
I'm afraid you may be confusing crossdressers with transsexuals (quite understandably) Early stage transitioning TSs often look very much like crossdressers, many anti-trans organisations promote the idea that there is no difference between CD and TS, and many CDs do fantasise about being TS. That is probably why the CD web forums tend to gloss over the realities. But the TS web forums are far more down to earth: typical posts are about how to cope with the alienation from friends and family, with the physical pain associated with things like electrolysis, with the difficulty of finding size 9 shoes (easy to find 4-inch stillettos in fetish shops -- difficult to find flats or low heels suitable for work!) and coping with the years of waiting for the next stage of the process.
But a mid-life CD is not the same as a TS who has suppressed their transness for 30, 40, 50, or more years. Back in the sixties and seventies, many probably knew that there was "something wrong with them" but couldn't identify what the problem was. Even if they could, few realised that medical transition was a possibility. So they suppressed it. There was no other option. And suppression often involved throwing themselves into excessively macho careers, and trying to do what society expected of them by getting married, etc.

StrangeAdventure · 30/09/2017 23:00

QuentinSummers
About half of young trans people and a third of trans adults attempt suicide. Lets imagine a group of 100 trans people made up of (say) 60 adults and 40 youth.
Half of the 40 youth is 20. A third of the 60 adults is 20. The total is 40 out of 100 = 40%
The figures vary a bit depending on the survey data you consider, and the proportions of adult and youth. But to claim that my sources are "contradictory" is just silly.

You said that "female victims of domestic violence have a hugely elevated risk of Suicide. 30 women a day in this situation attempt Suicide, three women a week succeed in their attempt." I'm not quite sure what it has to do with this discussion, but I don't dispute it, and I am certainly NOT suggesting that domestic violence is a fantasy or that victims of domestic violence should not receive help and sympathy, or that they should be abused or subjected to further violence.

You say "I think the oft repeated but incorrect statement that 40% of trans people will kill themselves..." There is no point continuing this discussion if you deny the facts.

Goodnight. Enjoy the Mumsnet echochamber.

Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 30/09/2017 23:04

think the oft repeated but incorrect statement that 40% of trans people will kill themselves

You said 40% ATTEMPT to kill themselves

Quention said that 40% DO NOT kill themselves

Or have I managed to misunderstand both of you

AssassinatedBeauty · 30/09/2017 23:13

This is where the frustration comes in,@StrangeAdventure. I didn't want to take any discussion off-thread into PMs. I'll happily respond to anything posted on the thread.

You've repeated the insinuation again - "if you don't want trans people dead then presumably you agree with me." That's a shutting down technique - agree with me or you're a very bad person.

I have no idea why you think I'm responding to you like a toddler tantrumming. I get that you don't like my response to your PM, but nowhere have I been unpleasant or confrontational.

StrangeAdventure · 30/09/2017 23:31

Rufustherenegadereindeer1
I said something along the lines of "40% is widely quoted"
Quentin said that a third of adult and half of kids was "contradictory" to 40%.
TBH, I don't think arguing over a few percentage points, rounding errors or discrepancies between surveys carried out at different times and using different methods makes much difference to the fundamental point, which is that rates of suicide and attempted suicide amongst pre-treatment trans people is several times higher than amongst the general population, and that for those who receive treatment, the rates fall. They are still at higher risk than the general population, probably due to discrimination abuse, and the threat of violence.

StrangeAdventure · 30/09/2017 23:45

AssassinatedBeauty
Is one dead teenager one too many? I think so. I assume you do too. If so, then we agree. What's the problem?

I haven't seen your response to my PM.

But as you don't want PMs, I'll put in public. Maybe you will post your response to it in public as well.

StrangeAdventure · 30/09/2017 23:48

AssassinatedBeauty
Here's that PM:-
^Hi, I'm sorry if I offended you: you asked a couple of perfectly reasonable questions. My jibe was aimed at those who are transphobic, not at people like you who have reasonable concerns about this confusing and frightening subject.

You asked a couple of questions earlier in the thread, but unfortunately I haven't worked out how to link replies to specific posts, so here's what I would have answered if I could:

^Increasingly, people are expressing their gender identity outside of the 'norms'"

This stuck out to me... people have been expressing themselves outside gender "norms" in many ways for many years. Without being trans.^ I think that was a bit of a strange way of putting it, TBH! Women with short hair wearing trousers are pretty normal nowadays. Men wearing skirts and having long hair are a bit more unusual, but aren't necessarily trans. And men who dress up as women for sexual "kicks" are definitely not trans. Medically and legally they are completely different. They are cis-male with a fetish.

So I'm as puzzled by that comment as I think you are (and please believe me ... I do know a bit about this subject!)

If there was, wouldn't all children who present as trans get these brain scans and are identified as definitively trans before being put on a pathway to puberty blockers, cross sex hormones and surgery? Does that happen?
At present, the brain scan test is still in the research stage. It may be useful, at some time in future, though whether it will be 100% reliable is anybody's guess. Right now, though, the best test available is careful assessment by expert psychiatrists. That is what happens when a child is referred to the Tavistock Clinic, or an adult is referred to any of the adult Gender Identity Clinics. It takes many months sometimes years of assessment before the psychiatrists come up with a diagnosis. Blockers are a way of "buying time".

Cross-sex HRT is only prescribed after diagnosis, and surgery (for adults) only after what is called the "Real Life Test", which involves living 24/7 in the "acquired gender". It's probably the RLT that needs most discussion, because it's in the early stages of RLT that the person looks most like their old gender, and has all their old "plumbing" intact. Women who are worried about men invading their safe spaces are understandably worried about this, and transsexuals hate it because they just want to move on with their lives rather than being stuck in limbo. But it's an important safety check to confirm the diagnosis and to make sure that surgical transition is likely to be right for that particular patient. International standards say that the RLT should last a year. In the UK, many psychiatrists insist on two years, with delays in waiting lists both for the first appointment at GIC and for surgery adding anything up to two or three years more.

It's a pathway, not a conveyor belt patients can get off it at any time if they or their clinicians think it is not in their best interests to continue . Many do for all sorts of reasons. And surgery is not an option for children, anyway, but I think it's important to appreciate that if a child really is trans, then the less they have developed beyond puberty, the less painful and more successful their eventual transition is likely to be.

Hope this helps -- happy to discuss it further if you wish.^

AssassinatedBeauty · 30/09/2017 23:51

I have no idea what point you're making. Of course no one wants any child or adult to kill themselves. This does not mean I agree with you about the best way to achieve this.

Italiangreyhound · 01/10/2017 00:19

qumquat "I've considered writing to Radio 4's More or Less asking them to look into suicide rates for transgender teens. I doubt they would touch it with a bargepole though."

Brilliant idea. Maybe if you don't tell them what you expect they will find then they may be willing to look into it.

Gingernaut · 01/10/2017 00:32

First article is dated 2011 - Guillamon thinks such scans may not help in all cases. “Research has shown that white matter matures during the first 20 to 30 years of life,” he says. “People may experience early or late onset of transsexuality and we don’t know what causes this difference.”

2nd article dated 2016 - “Trans people have brains that are different from males and females, a unique kind of brain,” Guillamon says. “It is simplistic to say that a female-to-male transgender person is a female trapped in a male body. It's not because they have a male brain but a transsexual brain.” Of course, behavior and experience shape brain anatomy, so it is impossible to say if these subtle differences are inborn.

3rd article dated this year - Of course, there’s a chicken-or-the-egg problem here: Is gender dysphoria the result of this difference in brain response or is it the cause? Can the brain explain how someone becomes transgender, or does being transgender explain how the brain behaves?

Case can’t make any firm conclusions either way. As she notes in the study, “Scientific reductionism is unlikely to yield a simple explanation for a phenomenon as complex as gender identity.” Asthey did with homosexuality, researchers have tried and failed toconclusively identify biological indicators—and even causes of—transgender identity.

[What the experiment showed was that FtM transgenders had brains that did not react to taps on their soon to be removed breasts in the same way as 'normal' women.

Well, no shit Sherlock!

Try the same thing with someone who has body dysmorphia and who rejects a limb. Tapping the rejected limb will not evoke the same response as someone who does not suffer from body dysmorphia]

Wiki is simply not reliable.

The fourth 'article' is a blog post from a 3rd year student who is positing a theory based on studies, some of which have been criticised by other scientists.

The last two simply show that there are differences between 'transgenders' and males and females.

Environment, genetics, socialisation, family, peer and social pressure can all cause behaviour which will affect brain chemistry and structure.

A gay child, in a conservative society, who is attracted to someone of the same sex will probably be conflicted, believe that they are 'wrong' in some fashion and they will be forced to act in a manner not in keeping with their sexuality. This will affect behaviour, brain chemistry and brain structure.

Although research continues, the only conclusive proof so far, is that those who identify as transgender are different to men and women.

StrangeAdventure · 01/10/2017 00:42

AssassinatedBeauty
OK. I'm sorry. I obviously didn't put it very well.
May I explain?
I originally wrote:
The idea that there has only been one trans suicide in the UK in 2017 is just plain wrong -- and even if it was correct, isn't that still one too many? (unless, of course, you subscribe to the view that the only good transsexual is a dead transsexual.)
In other words: I don't agree that there has only been one trans suicide in the UK in 2017 (I believe there have been many more).
But I don't see any point in arguing over the numbers, because even if it was only one, that would be one too many.
The only reason I could see for anyone disagreeing that one suicide is one too many would be if they thought that person should be dead.
I'm pretty certain I didn't intend to accuse you of thinking that trans people should kill themselves -- I have no reason to think that you do. That is why I was so surprised (and, yes, offended).

As to whether we agree about the best method for preventing trans suicide, I don't profess to be a psychiatrist, nor I think have I expressed my personal opinions about it on here. What I can say is that the overwhelming weight of expert opinion that I have read suggests that transition significantly reduces the risk of suicide.

I know there are other "treatments" available, but the most commonly-talked about alternative is "conversion" or "reparative" therapy. Earlier this year, the professional bodies representing psychiatrists, medics and counselllors in the UK, plus the NHS, signed a Memorandum of Agreement which said
^We the undersigned UK organisations wish to state that the practice of conversion therapy has no place in the modern world. It is unethical and harmful and not supported by evidence.
 
Conversion Therapy is the term for therapy that assumes certain sexual orientations or gender identities are inferior to others, and seeks to change or suppress them on that basis.^

Gingernaut · 01/10/2017 00:51

We can't argue with beliefs.

Cold, hard, logical and scientifically verified facts are required.

Suicide is so contentious an issue, that coroners are often loath to give the verdict of suicide, even though the deceased deliberately took the necessary steps to kill themselves.

Until people stop being so squeamish about relatives' sensibilities, we will never have a true suicide rate, whatever the cause.

LassWiTheDelicateAir · 01/10/2017 01:34

yes Disney and cartoons. I see a number if threads here about cartoons and the lack of female representation and since having my son and started watching them I completely agree. Or there is one female there but many in pink and/or doing "girly" things. Of COURSE girls these days want to identify out of that limiting role in life and say they are boys. Why wouldn't they?

Fgs keep a grip on reality.

StrangeAdventure · 01/10/2017 01:34

Gingernaut
This has to be the last one before bed.
Thanks for reading those links, and for restating some of the important points, and in particular for your conclusion that

Environment, genetics, socialisation, family, peer and social pressure can all cause behaviour which will affect brain chemistry and structure. Yes, I agree. So a trans child who is pressured into adopting a gender role that does not come naturally to them will eventually adapt, to some extent, to fit society's expectations. This, I believe, is what allows some trans people to suppress their transness long into adult life.

A gay child, in a conservative society, who is attracted to someone of the same sex will probably be conflicted, believe that they are 'wrong' in some fashion and they will be forced to act in a manner not in keeping with their sexuality. This will affect behaviour, brain chemistry and brain structure. We're not talking about gay children, but it seems a reasonable analogy.

Although research continues, the only conclusive proof so far, is that those who identify as transgender are different to men and women. YES!

So a transwoman is not a man. And once she has had HRT and GRS, and various other treatments, she will have has acquired some of the physical traits of a cis-woman, and lost some of the physical traits of a cis-man. In particular, she loses the muscle mass, aggression, libido, and penis that make some cis-men a potential threat to women. If it makes her feel better, and allows her to enjoy life, hold down a job, and contribute to society... why not? Sounds like a win-win solution to me.

Italiangreyhound · 01/10/2017 01:50

StrangeAdventure I am pretty sure that no one here wants any one to commit suicide, trans or otherwise, young or old.

The issue with inflating numbers about trans suicide is that it is being used to scare parents into agreeing to treatments which they may not feel are in their child's best interest.

There is also now, more than in my own childhood, an emphasis on what is 'normal' for boys or girls, so some young children, teens and older people may feel that because they want certain toys, or clothes or whatever, this must mean they are trans gender, rather than simply not wanting to go along with the gender stereotypes. I am aware that trans people may feel dysphoric etc, I am not disputing that. But not every child or adult that feels dysphoric will automatically be trans.

All the TV programmes I've seen or articles I've read about trans children all talk about clothes and toys. The BBC Horizon programme mentioned at the start of this thread featured an 11 year old girl. She has an unconventional hair cut for a girl and said she did not like dresses. She was not keen to start her period.

The mum in her conclusion said "He's alive, he's happy, he's healthy, and I'm happy he's able to be himself."

Of course any parent want their child to be happy and healthy. But take a look at this as an alternative route, which may be equally relevant for some trans presenting children/teens.

4thwavenow.com/2016/12/17/a-mums-voyage-through-transtopia-helps-her-daughter-desist/

So no suicide or death is acceptable. We need accurate records/facts, we need to know the best way to help 'our' (societies) children, of course.

And the distinctions you are making between transexuals and cross dressers/transvestites is not correct according to the stonewall glossary of terms. "Trans – an umbrella term to describe people whose gender is not the same as, or does not sit comfortably with, the sex they were assigned at birth. Trans people may describe themselves using one or more of a wide variety of terms, including (but not limited to) Transgender, Transsexual, Gender-queer (GQ), Gender-fluid, Non-binary, Gender-variant, Crossdresser, Genderless, Agender, Nongender, Third gender, Two-spirit, Bi-gender, Transman, Transwoman,Trans masculine, Trans feminine and Neutrois"

Italiangreyhound · 01/10/2017 02:08

StrangeAdventure I know you have gone to bed, (as I should too) but I just wanted to add that you seem to have an idea of what trans means that is not necessarily related to what is happening now.

"And once she has had HRT and GRS, and various other treatments, she will have has acquired some of the physical traits of a cis-woman, and lost some of the physical traits of a cis-man. In particular, she loses the muscle mass, aggression, libido, and penis that make some cis-men a potential threat to women. If it makes her feel better, and allows her to enjoy life, hold down a job, and contribute to society... why not? Sounds like a win-win solution to me."

Well that would all be great for transsexuals of course, and I know a transsexual who transitioned early, although not as a child of course, and is very happy being a transsexual woman.

However, many transgender women now will not have surgery or necessarily take hormones. They will not lose muscle mass. They may have surgery to create female-looking breasts, but may still retain their penis. And hormones may not affect their ability to use their penis.

You may wonder why this matters, well, as far as I see it is confusing. My transexual woman friend is angry that transexual people like herself, who have identified as female for a long time, not benefitted from male privilage and are no threat to women (and just want to live their lives quietly) have been used as examples for others who have lived as men for a long time, benefited from male privilege and are now identifying as women.

My friend had no opportunity to identify as a man, she was way too effeminate to 'pass' as a man, was sexually attracted to men and wanted to live as woman. Her life does indeed follow the pattern you state, but this is not now the norm of trans gender.

Anyway, to no one in particular, many women are now very concerned about the proposed self identification bill which, if it comes into law, could see any man identifying as a woman. The issues are much more complicated than the Horizon programme presented.

It's also important to note in the horizon progamme there were only two trans men and one trans boy, and they were all very young, compared to twice as many trans women of a variety of ages. Trans men and trans women do not all seem to present with the same issues and concerns, it just does not seem to be very similar in the way 'trans' can affect males and females. Who is doing research on that I wonder, that is not to anyone in particular!

This issue will not be going away and it is important that reporting on it gives more facts and not just emotive appeals. The Horizon programme gave a very one sided view.

Italiangreyhound · 01/10/2017 02:10

I mean "They will not lose muscle mass." if they do not take hormones.

AssassinatedBeauty · 01/10/2017 02:58

"Although research continues, the only conclusive proof so far, is that those who identify as transgender are different to men and women. YES!

So a transwoman is not a man."

That doesn't necessarily follow. A trans woman is a man with an apparently different brain to a typical man. That doesn't make them a non-man, or a woman.

I don't think anyone here is suggesting that trans people shouldn't transition, I'm certainly not. I'll happily support any adult who wants to change their presentation and who feels they need surgery and hormone treatment to be who they want to be.

I am extremely concerned that children who don't conform to our currently very restrictive sex-based stereotypes are being wrongly labeled as trans by adults when they are simply non conforming. It's all well and good saying that it's a pathway not a conveyor belt, but if you socially transition as a child, have puberty blockers and so on, it would be a massive step to tell people that you've changed your mind or that you're not sure. I also don't believe that puberty blockers are harmless and don't cause any long term issues. Also, experiencing puberty contributes to brain development and the process of becoming an adult. I worry about children who miss out on this stage of development.

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