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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Why do men use prostitutes?

392 replies

QuentinSummers · 01/08/2017 06:12

Guardian have published a summary of a research project here
www.theguardian.com/society/2010/jan/15/why-men-use-prostitutes
Men were asked what would put them off. A criminal record, an ASBO or their employer being told was the answer. Finding out the woman was pimped or coerced apparently not so much.
Not sure how that squares with the full decriminalisation model.

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EamonnWright · 14/01/2018 21:34

So it's a debate where no comparisons can be made?

Xenophile · 14/01/2018 21:35

No, we thought that, just for a change, we might look at why some men use women as wank rags.

EamonnWright · 14/01/2018 21:39

No, we thought that, just for a change, we might look at why some men use women as wank rags

You sound like someone I would keep my children away from.

EamonnWright · 14/01/2018 21:42

No, we thought that, just for a change, we might look at why some men use women as wank rags

You sound like someone I would keep my children away from.

AssassinatedBeauty · 14/01/2018 21:45

You think men are best represented by those men who use prostitutes, @EamonnWright?

EamonnWright · 14/01/2018 21:48

Why on earth would a person I don't know and have never met represent me, @AssassinatedBeauty?

I don't use prostitutes or watch Porn (I did untill reading I think it's Datun on here)

AssassinatedBeauty · 14/01/2018 21:52

Then why does this thread make you think feminists hate men, rather than men who use prostitutes?

EamonnWright · 14/01/2018 21:58

The language used against men obviously. If all men can be lumped into the same group then so can women surely?

Ergo you fuck your male students. I see women being caught doing this all the time in the media, ergo, you fuck your male students.

Doesn't matter if you're a teacher or not. By being a woman you are guilty by default.

Can women please stop fucking their male students please?

AssassinatedBeauty · 14/01/2018 22:02

"Can women please stop fucking their male students please?"

Yes, women should stop having sex with their male students, I quite agree. What's your point?

EamonnWright · 14/01/2018 22:04

Yes, women should stop having sex with their male students, I quite agree. What's your point

It is people like you fucking their students. Stop doing it please.

Purplerain101 · 14/01/2018 22:08

A friend of mine used to work as an escort for a number of years after she left uni. She made good money and put on this front that she loved the job and the freedom it gave her etc. She eventually admitted how much she hated it and was completely burnt out from having to lead a double life and pretend like she was loving every second of it with her clients. I haven’t seen her for a while as she moved abroad and had a mental breakdown.
I remember her telling me that 99% of her clients were married men and did it because they were either not getting enough sex at home, bored of having sex with one person or just wanted to have sex with younger more attractive women than their wives. Sickening stuff!

AssassinatedBeauty · 14/01/2018 22:13

I will definitely refrain from having sex with any of my students @EamonnWright. It's important that women recognise that this is something they should not do.

What's your point again?

EamonnWright · 14/01/2018 22:16

I don't have a point. I'm a stupid man. Just keep using the language you use and I'm sure you will see men and women flocking to your cause.

AlmondPearls · 14/01/2018 22:18

If men paying women for sex, ignoring how that woman got there in the first place, going along with it anyway despite their suffering etc = hating women.

Eating meat for your own pleasure/using animal products, at the expense of the animals, and ignoring/doing nothing = hating animals.

Etc etc etc

Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 14/01/2018 22:29

I don't have a point. I'm a stupid man

I think its very rare for someone to come on here and be so very open about their faults

Thats very good, very well done Thanks

Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 14/01/2018 22:29

Oh wait

Sorry

Have I misunderstood the post

It does happen often and I'm quite tired

Xenophile · 14/01/2018 22:57

You sound like someone I would keep my children away from.

Because I think that women are worth more than the men who pay to rape them? Or because I think that men are perfectly capable of treating women like they're human beings and expect them to do so?

Some men pay to use women as masturbatory aids, I don't think they deserve my respect or courtesy, why do you think I should be nice about them?

EamonnWright · 14/01/2018 23:03

I was talking about your description of these women as wankrags or whatever. You obviously can't be trusted to treat people like human beings so I would rather you weren't around my children.

AssassinatedBeauty · 14/01/2018 23:07

She's not describing them as wankrags. She's saying that men are using them as if they are wankrags. And objecting to that, because clearly they are not and shouldn't be used that way.

Xenophile · 14/01/2018 23:07

Bullshit.

Nice try to worm your way out of it, but, bullshit.

EamonnWright · 14/01/2018 23:10

*Bullshit.

Nice try to worm your way out of it, but, bullshit*

Worm my way out of what?

Xenophile · 14/01/2018 23:11

The fact that you care more about the language I used to describe what some men do, than the actions of those men really says absolutely everything about you, and nothing whatever about me.

EamonnWright · 14/01/2018 23:11

She's not describing them as wankrags. She's saying that men are using them as if they are wankrags. And objecting to that, because clearly they are not and shouldn't be used that way

This is a ridiculous interpretation.

BertrandRussell · 14/01/2018 23:12

Because they are misogynist arseholes who hate women.

Next question?

EamonnWright · 14/01/2018 23:13

The fact that you care more about the language I used to describe what some men do, than the actions of those men really says absolutely everything about you, and nothing whatever about me

OK. Where did I allude that I care more about one than the other?

This should be good Smile