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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Stories like this make me fear the world we live in

48 replies

TheChineseChicken · 29/07/2017 19:31

Not even sure if this is the right place to post this. But I heard about this today:

www.google.co.uk/amp/news.sky.com/story/amp/teenage-rape-victim-raped-again-by-driver-she-flagged-down-for-help-10964128

I think it's the first news story that has made me literally burst into tears. How can people be so awful? What kind of world am I bringing my daughter into?

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CeeBeeBee · 29/07/2017 19:35

I also read that yesterday and felt angry. I really don't know what to do. How does someone, especially in the second situation, treat a vulnerable person like that? Almost as if he did it because she was traumatised already and "one more" won't make a difference m. It made me sick.

TheChineseChicken · 29/07/2017 19:38

I honestly gagged. I've never reacted like that before. It horrified me

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Gileswithachainsaw · 29/07/2017 19:39

I saw this on Facebook a few days ago. The amount of comments questioning what she was doing out at 2am was astonishing SadAngry

Poor girl Flowers

AssassinatedBeauty · 29/07/2017 19:40

It stopped me in my tracks too. Appalling. Poor girl.

Do we as a society even understand what happens to men when they're growing up to turn them into people that can do this?

MamehaSan · 29/07/2017 19:44

Fucking hell. That poor woman Sad I hope they catch the predatory, evil men that did this.

TheChineseChicken · 29/07/2017 19:44

I wondered this, Assassinated, how are we creating listers like this?

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TheChineseChicken · 29/07/2017 19:44
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Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 29/07/2017 19:45

I saw it yesterday

Poor little thing

TheChineseChicken · 29/07/2017 19:45

How can she ever trust anyone again?

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LuxuryWoman2017 · 29/07/2017 20:02

This has brought out a fury in me, fucking animals who will have destroyed this child.

Day upon day we hear of despicable crimes against women and I think many of us become so used to hearing about them we become desensitised to an extent.
This though...I have no words strong enough to describe how sickened.

Jeez Id cut their bollocks off.

NoLoveofMine · 29/07/2017 23:55

Sadly doesn't horrify me in the slightest just because I know of worse happening when I was 14. At that age, I realised how much hatred there is for women and girls in the world. This is not isolated, in the slightest.

That said, I saw this and felt so sad for this girl. I hate this happens but I am utterly powerless to stop it.

NoLoveofMine · 30/07/2017 00:03

Also not to play it down it is utterly, utterly horrible.

TheChineseChicken · 30/07/2017 06:44

NoLove sorry to hear this

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AssignedMentalAtBirth · 30/07/2017 08:48

To those fuckers who are asking what she was doing out, I was sexually assaulted when I was coming home from school. I was also 14. In full school uniform. Was that my fault too?

Fuck right off and stop victim blaming.

TheChineseChicken · 30/07/2017 09:05

Of course not Assigned and I'm so sorry to hear that you have been a victim Flowers

I obviously know nothing about this girl's situation but I do wonder if she will have the support she needs. Sadly I suspect that all too often (not always) these things happen to those who don't come from the most stable family situations.

Is there anything we can do? I worry for my daughter.

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passmethewineplease · 30/07/2017 09:25

I hope that poor girl has access to some good support. Sad

Evil bastards.

Popchyck · 30/07/2017 09:33

Two men arrested in relation to the first attack.

Police still looking for the man responsible for the second attack.

BBC report

NoLoveofMine · 30/07/2017 09:35

Thank you Chicken though sorry - posting that made it about myself (was an incident not involving me just was awful) when this thread is about the horrific incident in question. I shouldn't have derailed it like that.

This is horrific and I just hope the girl has lots of love and support around her.

TheChineseChicken · 30/07/2017 09:44

Yes but the point is this isn't an isolated incident. This is about all the poor young girls being violated and abused everyday. This is just one that has made the news but what about all the others?

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TheChineseChicken · 30/07/2017 09:45

What I mean is, you haven't derailed anything

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NoLoveofMine · 30/07/2017 09:47

It's abhorrent and I feel enraged that it could happen. It very much isn't isolated; I've posted in other threads and indeed started one about the scale of violence against women and just a few of the cases I could remember off hand of women and girls who've been attacked by men unknown to them purely due to their sex just this year.

AmyGardner · 30/07/2017 09:47

Wasn't she out at 2am because she'd already been subject to a six hour attack? Angry Unless maybe I misunderstood.

I don't understand anything about this. What kind of depravity are these men living in constantly for it to be acceptable to say 'maybe we should set up a teenage girl so we can both rape her, after making her think one of us is her saviour, hahaha that's genius'?

SadAngry

TheChineseChicken · 30/07/2017 09:50

So are the two attacks thought to be connected?

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Gileswithachainsaw · 30/07/2017 09:54

assigned

It shouldn't matter where you were what you were wearing it what you were doing.

No is no. And your body is yours and yours only. There is nothing you could say do or wear that would make it your fault!!

As a society we have to stop with these kind of reactions to things because it effectively says the men can't help it. That we should expect it.

AmyGardner · 30/07/2017 09:59

Well it's a hell of a coincidence surely? It didn't even cross my mind that they would be unconnected.