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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Identiy Politics

69 replies

AssignedMentalAtBirth · 27/07/2017 00:37

Woo woo, this is what we are raising

what in the name of fuck will these fuckwits teach their children?

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MissBax · 27/07/2017 00:45

Oh for fucks sake, they're all so bloody worried about offending people by STATING FACTS!! Arghhh I'm so fed up with all this nonsense now, seriously, where is it going to end?!?!

MissBax · 27/07/2017 00:46

Thanks for sharing it though assigned, I'm going to share this separately with a few people myself.

LassWiTheDelicateAir · 27/07/2017 00:55

This one is interesting too. You know how old fogies say they must be making exams easier? I am now officially an old fogey.

Word of caution those videos are made by this bunch.

www.fpiw.org/our-issues/

MissBax · 27/07/2017 01:01

It would be hilarious if it wasn't so tragic. Cab you imagine trying to report a crime - "can you describe the perpetrator?"
"erm, they were a man, no a woman... No a man, oh I just couldn't tell! How would I know?!"

Atenco · 27/07/2017 01:03

Their class discussions must be really boring.

DeleteOrDecay · 27/07/2017 01:09

God they all sound bloody ridiculous skirting around the questions like that.

Collidascope · 27/07/2017 06:59

If he'd started out with the 6 foot 5 statement, they'd have said that he wasn't. As he started it off with "I'm a woman" and they all agreed, they had no choice but to follow him down the rabbit hole for everything else. The lack of logic is just breathtaking.

Datun · 27/07/2017 07:08

Collidascope

That's very true. Its bloody brainwashing. The trigger word is 'identify' after that you can say what you like and they have to agree.

AlternativeTentacle · 27/07/2017 07:08

what the fuck is happening?

ludog · 27/07/2017 07:17

Sweet jebus Confused
Mind you, I had an argument with my 16 year old about this yesterday.Me:" It's not possible to change sex, you can change outward appearance so that you LOOK like the opposite sex but you remain male or female" Dd:" if you've had surgery you ARE the opposite sex" Me: "So, if I had to have a mastectomy and a hysterectomy would that mean I'm now a man?" Dd:"Obviously not" Me: "Why, if I've removed my female organs?" Dd:"Because you don't want to be a man"

Confused
SerfTerf · 27/07/2017 07:22

"That I would question"

"Why?"

"Because you're not"

But only when he starts asserting that he 6' 5.

Do you think any of them reflected afterwards and started to doubt the doctrine?

AdalindSchade · 27/07/2017 07:25

ludog it's magical thinking isn't it?

QueenLaBeefah · 27/07/2017 07:31

Critical thinking seems to have gone out of fashion.

ludog · 27/07/2017 07:32

That's exactly what I said to her, magical thinking. She just doesn't get it and gets so angry with me when I talk about it. My generation just don't get it apparently and it's just like how homosexuality used to be seen...I despair!
Her older sisters are more open to critical thinking so maybe maturity will bring her to peak trans.

SpaghettiAndMeatballs · 27/07/2017 07:33

ROFL - that was fantastic - I definitely think some cogs started turning for a couple of them (if only they'd keep turning) - I think it was interesting that a few of them were aware that they would agree only because it wasn't harmful to anyone else, even if clearly it wasn't the truth

Datun · 27/07/2017 07:45

- I think it was interesting that a few of them were aware that they would agree only because it wasn't harmful to anyone else, even if clearly it wasn't the truth

Agreed.

Since when did lying, and accepting a lie, however outrageous, become completely acceptable as long as it's not harmful?

How can harm be the determinant of truth?

We are not talking, does my bum look big in this?

This is wholesale brainwashing.

And it DOES harm. It's changing laws for fuck's sake.

ludog · 27/07/2017 08:20

The whole "it's not hurting you so why do you care" culture is so dangerous. We all have a responsibility to speak up when we see things that aren't right even if we're not directly affected by them. This creeping in of control over language is so insidious, ultimately it will effect us all but these deluded kids can't see that.

MissBax · 27/07/2017 08:20

Another one here. It just beggar's belief - "but what about it what WE want?! Listen to US!" So bloody entitled. Nevermind the fact that other people have rights too!

Datun · 27/07/2017 08:46

I wish he had let them talk more. I don't think they were given a big enough rope there.

VestalVirgin · 27/07/2017 08:56

Me: "So, if I had to have a mastectomy and a hysterectomy would that mean I'm now a man?" Dd:"Obviously not" Me: "Why, if I've removed my female organs?" Dd:"Because you don't want to be a man"

Perhaps you should identify as genderfluid and demand male pronouns whenever you talk to your DD.
(But still use women's facilities everywhere ... until the new law goes through, obviously)

Perhaps seeing this happen in reality, seeing the person who gave birth to her pretend to be male, would make her wake up.

(And if she complains that you are taking the piss, remind her that NO ONE EVER identifies as trans for the purpose of piss-taking, not even male rapists who want access to women's spaces. Therefore, it is virtually impossible for anyone to identify as trans to take the piss)

ludog · 27/07/2017 08:59

In fairness, she doesn't agree with the pisstakers of the "I'm a woman today because I feel like one" variety but she is adamant that it is possible to change your biological sex.

Runningissimple · 27/07/2017 09:08

The logic is flawed. Gender is a social construct- read some Judith Butler or some social anthropology if you don't get that. Race is also a social construct but height and age are more empirically testable.

It's good for all of us to challenge ideas around race and gender. How open minded and tolerant young people are is wonderful and to be celebrated not sneered at.

Don't worry, give them a few years in the workforce and they'll calcify into intolerant protectionist traditionalists...

I understand it's a complex debate but it is an important one.

MissBax · 27/07/2017 09:14

But if gender is a social construct, why do transmen/women want to "change" their gender then? If it's not real anyway?

AdalindSchade · 27/07/2017 09:27

None of it makes sense. I often hear/read genderists stating that gender is a social construct and I just feel Confused

lessworriedaboutthecat · 27/07/2017 10:06

I only watched the couple of video's nit the one with the pro trans activists. The feeling I got was the college kids were just trying to be nice and I can see where they are coming from to a degree, of course he's not a 6,5 7 year old Chinese girl however him just saying that isn't causing any harm. Him then demanding to use the girls restroom at a Chinese girls school would be a whole other issue.
Also they are aware that they are being filmed so wouldn't want to say anything controversial. The last thing they would want would be to expelled from University or hounded on social media until they were forced to leave. One moment of honesty could leave them to being forced to continue their education at a Christian College founded by a televangelist in 2005 with a statue of a Confederate General on the front lawn.
Mostly I think they were just trying to be polite and say the nice thing though.

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