A lot of the whining from MRAs etc seems to be around women not giving them the attention they "deserve".
It's reminded me of last xmas where we were doing the tables for the work do and we did it and then someone pointed out that that left an all male table, and that wasn't any good. I said, well why not? I mean it's traditional but does it actually matter and she responded that the men "like to have someone to show off to, don't they" (no she's not a "feminist as far as I know". And when it came to it, we did swap around but due to arrival order, the women ended up on one side, and the men on the other. And I realised that the women were all sitting there chatting and laughing and having a good time and the men were all sitting there on the other side looking a bit lost. We did mix around later and it was all good - we all know each other and they are all nice. But I thought - is this our role at a formal occasion? To get all prettified and then give the man allocated to us someone to direct conversation at who will smile amiably etc?
It was all very interesting.
Actually it was me who moved first because I felt a bit sorry for the poor sods :D and they are all perfectly nice so it was hardly a hardship 