Simple question - have you ever said "fuck me harder"

[BeyondPolkadots]

That's it

Me - yes.

Yes I have but now I realise this means anyone can have sex with me whenever they like without asking and it will be all my own fault for being so easy.

You wonder the reason for your input and I will wonder mine. Thanks.

How many men do you need to have sex with before you are no longer able to be raped?

How many positions do you need to try?

How many kinks do you need to experiment with?

How short a skirt do you need to wear?

If only all these things really did mean that a woman was impervious to rape, it would mean that so much suffering would be saved.

They are all lies told about women to justify rape.

TwentyCups

And sadly I was about to post something similar, the last time I was sexually assaulted, I initiated sex with 'safe' friend 2 days later. I wanted to wipe out that memory, that if something happened and I could never have sex again I didn't want that to be my last memory.

To be crass I had to get back on the horse. . .

An action that is seen as courageous in so many many situations, but in this one makes you a lying slag

both. I did the same. And though they were acquaintances, I'd slept with one beforehand. Not a hope in hell of a conviction.

Yes I have said it often, sometimes I just want hard sex

Same here. Consensial sex with someone I knew and trusted was comforting.

Yes

Yup.

Let's hope I never get raped hey?

I think what we essentially need to accept is that as long as a rapist has sex with you in a sexual position that you've had sex in before, he hasn't committed a crime.

No.

Yes

Often.

And, hours after i was sexually assaulted by a friend, I had loving sex with my husband. It was a way of taking back control.

On the flip side of this 'leading question', how many of us would agree to sex with a random stranger who barged his way into a room you were in, already naked & having sex with someone else?

Not me.

I don't wonder the reason for my input, cadno. I am a rape survivor and I think this is a crock of shit. What's your excuse?

Yup.

Don't normally post on the feminist board (don't feel clever enough)

I have two daughters and this entire horrible thing has made me both worried for them in the future and very angry.

Tee hee cadno. Everyone loves a rape joke.

But nobody likes a 'No'.

Yes.

I have also:

• tried different positions
• flirted
• had sex before marriage.

I bet my parents are ashamed of me!

Oh no, wait - it's normal!

no I haven't, although I am a hetero male

Yep