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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Simple question - have you ever said "fuck me harder"

128 replies

BeyondPolkadots · 15/10/2016 14:22

That's it

Me - yes.

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QuiteLikely5 · 15/10/2016 14:24

I think this is a question more suited to a porn chat room not a forum like this.

MidnightVelvetthe7th · 15/10/2016 14:25

Yes. I have said to different partners at different times.

What I have never said was: fuck me harder all the men I will possibly meet in the future, this extends to you all no matter how unconscious I am. Plus I'm not a virgin so I'm clearly a slag & therefore unrapeable.

TheCaptainsCat · 15/10/2016 14:25

Yes!

venusinscorpio · 15/10/2016 14:26

Yes, many times.

bloodymaria · 15/10/2016 14:26

Why do you ask?

Cockblocktopus · 15/10/2016 14:27

Yep

FrancisHouseman · 15/10/2016 14:28

Yes.

RandomDent · 15/10/2016 14:31

No.

AyeAmarok · 15/10/2016 14:34

Yep, or variations of.

I think I have said variations of this (just like she said "go harder" to one of the paid-for witnesses) to nearly all of my sexual partners at some stage.

Marbleheadjohnson · 15/10/2016 14:35

Yes. Also had kinky consensual sex in many positions. I have also been raped more than once. I never reported it, and recent events have crystallised my own reasons for why I was reluctant to.

What about a man who rapes his wife? "Well she said she liked it before, she asked me to go harder. She said it this time you're accusing me of raping her too, so I can't possibly have raped her"

GiveMeRitz · 15/10/2016 14:37

Yeap

Oh and lots of other stuff 'cause even women don't always want the strokey feathery shite. Sometime we (well I at least) want here and now, fast & hard just plain sex, a shag, a fuck…

So does that make me a adult women with a healthy sexual appetite…or a 'slag' who can't be raped?

BeyondPolkadots · 15/10/2016 14:37

Quite and bloody, it has been used in the defence of a rape trial (if you don't know about it, tbh i'd stay away as it's depressing). I'm not just asking for a hairy handed wank Grin

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ImperialBlether · 15/10/2016 14:38

Exactly - the position she was in and the words she allegedly said were no different to those used by women all over Britain. You'd think she'd given some secret code or asked for something that nobody had ever asked for.

Bitofacow · 15/10/2016 14:39

Yes

And I clearly meant it was OK for any man to "fuck me harder" from that point onwards. Anyone at all. Yep anybody. Who ever, when ever. Say it once and it applies for the rest of your life. Let's hope I never end up in court. Us silly women and our silly expressions.

Grrrrrrrr

littlebeps · 15/10/2016 14:42

Yes

BombadierFritz · 15/10/2016 14:44

yes
I was obviously gagging for it with any random passing rapist.

Xenophile · 15/10/2016 14:51

Yes.

Which apparently means that anyone can break into my room while I'm having sex with someone else and help themselves.

I've had drunken one night stands and I've been raped, so I'm well aware of the difference. I'm glad I didn't report and will think twice before suggesting any other woman does either, especially if she's not a fluttering virgin.

My violent, abusive ex wouldn't need a £50k bribe to slag me off in court either, he'd be positively slavering to do it.

cadnowyllt · 15/10/2016 14:53

Objection ! your Honour, Leading question

venusinscorpio · 15/10/2016 14:55

Have you ever said "fuck me harder, cadno?"

BeyondPolkadots · 15/10/2016 14:58

Thanks for the link, in case anyone didn't know what a leading question is.

Didn't realise we were in court either, but

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cadnowyllt · 15/10/2016 15:01

Have you ever said "fuck me harder, cadno?"

No - I can't recall saying it.

MagicalRealist · 15/10/2016 15:03

Yes. On separate occasions and with different partners. Ditto having sex 'doggy style'. And expressing myself confidently.

I hadn't realised that this was notably deviant behaviour.

venusinscorpio · 15/10/2016 15:04

Just wondering what your input is then.

Bitofacow · 15/10/2016 15:06

"Expressing yourself confidently", you're really asking for it young lady.

Mini skirt????

Soubriquet · 15/10/2016 15:07

Yes.

And I've said it whilst being done "doggy style"