My opinions are not fixed I don't think that is a weakness. I think some of us are shifting and making accommodations we are not totally comfortable with. And that makes me proud. I would not presume to talk for individuals. I could be wrong.
I did my porn research several years ago and stayed in my niche. This thread had forced me outside and I am thrilled. Ethical porn is moving on nicely.
"Can ethical porn exist? There’s really no reason why it couldn’t, as long as the people involved have agency and a voice. I can recognize that the industry as a whole fails in that regard more often than it succeeds, but I do not agree that it is simply because of filming sex acts. I believe quite strongly that it is because of the combination of patriarchy, capitalism, and shame/ignorance around sexuality, both within and around the porn industry. The best way to challenge that is not, in my opinion, through censorship and abolitionism but through increased awareness of a more positive, successful, enjoyable way to create this content."
www.huffingtonpost.com/kitty-stryker/principled-pornography-ho_b_1435614.html
I had hoped for incremental moves but there are articles in GQ about ethical porn a man has written a book telling men how to source ethical porn. Men are discussing ethical porn! The battle is not won. Porn is not feminist but enough people discussing ethical porn has forced into onto the agenda. It has changed the working environment for some women.
Yes body discipline is still an issue, yes society shapes our expectations, yes women are still oppressed. But in terms of pornography women are not being dismissed (totally) voices are being raised.
The women in the porn industry are finding a voice. Do I always agree with the voice? No. But I will not dismiss it and I am glad I can hear it.
I am confounded. I thought amateur porn would be more ethical but I couldn't be more wrong. Amateur porn reflects more stereotypes and it is professional sites that are shifting the bar.
Can we move the discussion further forward?
Buffy I am a bit compulsive obsessive, obviously
Matilda with you 100% on abortion