Please help me come to terms with my anger

[Pepperwitheverything]

I have a son and two daughters and I have a husband whom I love and cherish. BUT.... Right now I feel angry at men and I hate them SO much! All the harm they do to women and children? I HATE them.

But, I hate hating them. I feel angry and nasty and how just like one of those awful men must feel. Please help me get over this. I keep waiting for the resigned stage to set in but it never does. Almost two years later, I still feel filled with anger and rage towards men...and I HATE that.

Thanks so much to everyone for all the replies. There have been some great suggestions....Zazzles I will order that book as it sounds like it might really help me. I feel like I need some real practical steps and things to work on as I know my mindset has to change.
Buffy that actually does help me. I suppose I was just looking at men thinking they were choosing to treat women in a dehumanising way as they gained from it, and not that they are part of this system and under patriarchy too.
Whatdoes, what you said resonated a lot. The thing is, I have lovely men in my life and individually I get on with each of them and really like them. Somehow I have allowed myself to separate them from all the other men out there who I feel so angry and sad about. I need to change my whole way of thinking.