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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Why has the trans/sex/gender debate emerged at this moment?

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UptheChimney · 06/07/2014 08:31

That's it: what is at stake that this argument/attack on feminists from trans people has emerged at this moment?

As a late 70s feminist, my experience of trans issues was that there was huge discrimination for those who didn't fit into heteronormativity, and I could see how lesbian & gay people had much in common with trans people. And with feminists.

Solidaritry wasn't uniform: while lesbian feminism was very strong, gay men were pretty misogynist and elements of the male gay movement still are the non-monogamous etc etc versions of "gay lifestyles" are pretty masculinist in a very unreconstructed way: the idea that men are driven by sex, and should have the freedom to have sex when/where/whatever. But that's another thread.

So what are the views on why this battle between trans people and some feminists? Is it another "What about teh menz?" Is it because women are expected simply to care about everyone else?

Ideas? Views?

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BuffytheReasonableFeminist · 08/07/2014 21:20

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Romeyroo · 08/07/2014 21:58

Beach, can you please clarify what you mean by academic feminism contributing to the rise of transactivism? The other groups I get your meaning, but academic feminism is surely as broad a church as feminism? Not being picky, it is a genuine question.

BuffytheReasonableFeminist · 08/07/2014 22:06

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Romeyroo · 08/07/2014 22:18

Happy for anyone to respond...

ICanHearYou · 08/07/2014 22:51

I have just spent a whole DAY reading old threads and posts, looking up articles and so on.

Watching a 'woman' with a penis tell me all about how her penis is the most amazing thing in the WHOLE world and UNRAVELS GENDERS with its amazingness.

Because that is not a masculine perception to have of anything is it?

I mean taking away the fact that it is a PENIS, if someone was so enthused about a tea cup being THE ANSWER TO ALL THE WORLDS PROBLEMS LISTEN TO ME SAY IT IN YOUR FACE VERY LOUD

That would be a very masculine way of talking about a tea cup.

This, is the strangest thing I have seen all year

ICanHearYou · 08/07/2014 22:54

I think transactivism is going to add to a massive bout of radical feminism. I am feeling more radical every day.

Sigyn · 08/07/2014 23:11

subbing, sorry, or I'll lose this thread. I know that's bad form. Sorry.

Hazchem · 09/07/2014 04:52

Yes I have to say I feel more radicalised every day. In part to do with trans issues but for me issues around motherhood and mothering have really broken a veil to what the world thinks of women.

Ages and ages ago I started a thread about people hating women and time and time again I see that reinforced through discussions on motherhood, working, experience of the world.

And what is hardest for me is that day by day I am finding it harder to hold my tongue. I don't want to upset or offend people but at the same time I'm finding it harder and harder not to say what I see. I don;t try to be nasty and I think I'm a very choice based feminist but we are so trapped within our structures those choices are hardly ever based or real agency and understanding.

And I'm finding every where I turn that the answer really does seam o be a complete overhaul of the structures that govern us. That I hope will bring and end to patriarchy but also capitalism which seams like patriarchy dressed up as a nicer more respectable cousin when really it;s just as creepy, nasty and controlling.

Beachcomber · 09/07/2014 08:49

Sure Romeyoo. I mean academic feminism NOT feminists in academia.

By which I mean how feminism is taught and dealt with as a subject in the academy so things like many departments calling Women's Studies, Gender Studies. Important feminist texts such as Sexual Politics, Right-Wing Women, Gyn/Ecology, Toward a Feminist Theory of the State being neglected, indeed, generally not taught at all. Plus the influence of philosophers like Judith Butler and subsequently, Queer Theory.

Tanacot · 09/07/2014 09:28

I was talking to a mate of mine yesterday about this - not the academia stuff really because we never went and it's not really...I mean, on my street so far as I know there's only one woman who went to university, so all that stuff is just not really anything to do with the feminism we need here. I can't use that in this neighbourhood. One thing we talked about was how we could have done with some basic analytical tools as younger women to recognise harmful situations. Like, just a sort of checklist:

  1. If you're in a friendship group and there are plenty of older men and no older women, those men are not your friends.
  2. If a guy tells you 'You're not like those other girls' he is not on your side. Because you are a girl and he's just told you he despises them.
  3. ..?

Do you know what I mean? Just some more basic stuff. Not about "not getting raped" which is all bullshit, I mean more things like how to look at patterns in your life and what questions to ask yourself. On the Relationships board I notice that women start listening when posters they have never met can predict actual lines (the script, they sometimes call it I think) their own husbands have spoken.

BuffytheReasonableFeminist · 09/07/2014 09:36

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Hazchem · 09/07/2014 09:38

I posted this on another thread just now. The question and what about the women? is quite a useful tool. And I think it's analytical but also can be simple. So in your first situation the question and what about the women? You migth get answers like where are the women, why aren't there other women here? what does that mean for me as a women? How are women spoken about in this group?

Th question is from a sociology text book by Ritzer (although he gets two women to write the feminist chapter)

ArcheryAnnie · 09/07/2014 09:38

You are absolutely right, Tanacot.

Point 2 works for other situations, too. I was a nerd at school, but one of my big sisters was popular, and definitely one of the coolest girls. She was always getting "you aren't like those other Blacks" from people who were basically racist but who liked her because: cool. (It was the 70s, so language was different then.)

Hint: it isn't a compliment.

Tanacot · 09/07/2014 09:59

I'm not "writing off" academic feminism btw. I'm very happy for it to go on and exist and I support you in your endeavour by paying taxes etc. In fact I have raised and also given my own money for women (in general and some specific women I know) to go to university and supported them in real life by looking after their kids etc so they can go to stuff. All I'm saying is the language and preoccupations (deconstructing this and Lacan that) has got nowt to do with me or my life here and it hasn't. Here we need things like access to law, escape from men, access to (ironically) education, safety in public spaces. Never mind Reclaim the Night, round here we haven't reclaimed the day.

I always butt up against academics and it upsets me because I'm really not against you lot at all but just having ideas and opinions without reference to academia seems to be a massive challenge to academics, and I can't understand it. You can't be part of an institution that is exclusionary and then get sniffy when the people you exclude just get on with their lives without you.

I mean, you can, but it's silly. It's just really silly and also a bore. I never went to university because I was shoved into this house caring for DH 24 hours a day with no help and support when I was a teenager and was kept here until very recently. I mean literally trapped in the house, unable to leave for more than an hour at a time. My first night "off" was my 30th birthday-- I stayed at my brother's house. Of my neighbours, I am by far the lucky one. The preoccupations of academia are honestly, to us, beyond a joke.

Tanacot · 09/07/2014 10:08

Oh look, you know what. Forget I said that. I know how this will go and I honestly don't want to be disruptive to your vibe here because I do mean what I say about being very happy for it to go on and I understand my words and opinions are incompatible with that.

It was a mistake on my part and I withdraw. Please accept my apologies.

BuffytheReasonableFeminist · 09/07/2014 10:13

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Beachcomber · 09/07/2014 10:16

Never mind Reclaim the Night, round here we haven't reclaimed the day.

Yes to this. You have a brilliant way with words Tanacot.

I know what you mean. Not where I live now but part of my growing up.

Beachcomber · 09/07/2014 10:32

Don't go Tanacot. Please. This is my fault for introducing academic feminism in the first place. I don't want to discuss it, I just cite it as one of the reasons for why we are in the context that we are with regards to feminism, gender, transgenderism, etc. All I meant by what I said is that there are fashions and movements within academia and I think currently we are (generally, obviously not everywhere) in a current academic fashion of 'gender' being something to study rather than something to consciousnesses raise about and smash.

That's all I want to say on the subject and it isn't an accusation against all women academics or all academics feminists or all feminist teaching by a long way. The major influences and fashions in academia filter down into the media, culture, politics, etc and that is why fashions in them matter.

Beachcomber · 09/07/2014 10:40

Sorry for triple post. I just remembered that I actually came on here to say that I saw the term 'cis-supremacist' being used the other day in all seriousness.

BuffytheReasonableFeminist · 09/07/2014 10:41

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7Days · 09/07/2014 10:46

supremacist, no less.

Roll over, eh Angry

JustTheRightBullets · 09/07/2014 11:30

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ArcheryAnnie · 09/07/2014 11:38

JustTheRight the WomensAid employment guidelines explicitly say they would hire trans women (who have the right skills), but only ones who have transitioned and have Gender Reassignment Certificates. But appaz they are still transphobic because reasons...

(Seriously, if you are attacking DV services, your political movement has truly jumped the shark. But even this isn't new - Sophiaphotos on twitter has been talking about "taking down" the Vancouver rape crisis shelter for some time. Because that's a feminist thing to do. Or something.)

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