Just feeling really angry at all the murder, assault, rape of females that goes on

[BornStroppy]

I told my husband how horrible it is being part of a gender that is constantly attacked, murdered, etc. He had never thought about it. He doesn´t need to. So we have Tia Sharp, the lady who disappeard in London, an old lady in Scotland murdered by son´s friend, another one murdered in a taxi in Birmingham - this is just over two weeks.

I have one son, pregnant again and just hope its another boy to be honest.

Why is it OK? Apart from raising gentlemen, what the hell can we do? As a gender, we give birth, nurture, raise, care for them, and as a gender we are the ones who suffer at their hands.

its so depressing.

Remember Chairman this isn't a parenting site no matter what it says.

oh dear, is meow having his parenting aspirations squashed now ?

funnily enough, most of us think such attitudes have no place on a parenting site, and thankfully HQ agree

I don't see what this has to do with parenting, except I suppose in that it's great to bring up children who don't believe all the trivializing horseshit about violence against women.

Has he been banned?

not yet

Well maybe he's been drinking wine, and maybe so have a few others.

Probably, they seem quite sensitive souls, too quick to censor for a message board

why would that be, changlinz ?

and why would that be an excuse ?

MNHQ are not on this thread, I believe they are drinking wine (and gin) elsewhere. Being sensible souls.

You guys do know it's them who delete stuff, right?

take it up with HQ if you don't agree, PM

there's plenty of ways to "contact mumsnet"

one of the best ways, of course, is to attract their attention by repeatedly making posts that contravene guidelines

admins or moderaters, has to be last resort not first resort, too many threads become even more confusing to follow with missing posts that other posts comment on

If you want to lay down the law, see if MNHQ will let you work for them (god I hope not). Otherwise, let them do what they do, eh?

was replyin to changlingz post at 23.46, better to warn than censor, stops every other thread just gettin nasty

i don't know, even with that post deleted i wa still able to follow the thread and get the measure of good old meow

tell it to the organ grinders, PM

and if you don't like it, there are plenty other parenting websites you can use, no ?

It is pro-social for men to be violent in our culture. That is not the same as it being natural.

Otherwise, there wouldn't be such cultures as these

better still, start your own site to slag off Mumsnet

oh, somebody already did that...too late, how unfortunate

I think plenty has articulated what I hate so much about meow's theory of sexual selection.

Meow's theory conjures up images of men lining up, puffing out their chests and showing off their strength desperate to be chosen by a powerful female, whereas the reality is that in the past such men were more likely to use that strength to overpower women and take away their choice and reduce them to objects, in the ways that plenty described in her post.

Also, meow, just out of interest, if in the course of evolution, women chose only violent alpha males, then why are the majority of men clearly non violent beta males?

Hey Fucker, large number of censored threads here, posts is read by admin very quickly, clearly no need to report to organ grinders as they already read message

Yeah, that's exactly how it works, porn, that's why every post I report goes and this thread has about twenty posts of sane discussion and nothing else.

Oh, wait ...

meant already read my message at 00.04, no need to say what i think to them

it's Any Fucker to you, or AF

where are your manners ?

and you are wrong

HQ do not read every post, there are far too many in a day for the small staff that they have

their attention is brought to posts that are reported, or of course if their antennae are already twitching about a thread that has already turned into a bit of a bunfight

it might be best to get your facts straight, before engaging your keyboard

Hello
Just a gentle friendly early Wednesday morning warning that we do have guidelines that we like our members to read and adhere to
HTH
MNHQ

seems every post is read...ty and every thread i read in this bit turns into a bunfight