Rosabud, of course I'm not defending FGM on the grounds of cultural history, it was in relation to difficulties faced in changing the attitudes of the women themselves to stop the practice. But I thought it would have been obvious from my post, or do you choose to twist it to suit ?
Corsets. There's a fascinating diary excerpt, think it's 17C online from a 13yr female who describes the excitement and pain of breaking in her new corset. Describes how her mother ties her into it.
Footbinding took me a while to understand it from the point of view of mother who would put her daughter through such pain but from a historical viewpoint and given opportunities I could fathom why so many would put their daughters at risk and cripple them for life.
Widows on funeral pyres yes understand why that happened
Yes they are all barbaric, screwed up practices yet taking it in the context of educated western females routinely placing themselves under the knife for various augmentations, body modifications, self harming, starvation and probably several hundred other weird practices where do we place the line as to what women should be allowed and not allowed to happen to their bodies ?
Possibly some masochistic reminder females pass down to females that in order to fully understand womenhood we must in some way contiue the programing of pain and suffering that must go with it ? For Eve's sins, wasn't she forever to endure pain in childbirth and all of her daughters too?
I can't get sentimental on certain subjects, not because I don't care but it clouds reality and facts. As a mother of DDs who has GDs I possibly have more of a vested interest than most in feminist issues and the impact society does and will have on them.
Your statements reveal much about you as a person but go a long way to understanding why so many young females do not wish to engage feminism. As supposed champions of women and their plight you have a pretty strange way of showing those looking in just how much you really care, or are willing to grasp on certain subjects and choose to belittle, misunderstand those who offer something to a debate which isn't in keeping with one of the sisterhood.