non working mothers

[lorcana]

are non working mothers betraying their sex ?

Add message | Report | Message poster lorcana Sun 05-Feb-12 00:23:56
why is this such a contentious issue ? why can't we ask such questions- without getting abused and provoking such anger ?

I don't know, why? Is it everyone's time of the month perhaps? It's like the time I asked why do some brown people smell all horrible like stale curry and talk funny but others have nice fuzzy hair and natural rhythm and everyone said I was like some sort of racialist or something. They're so touchy round here. Never mind op, have another

everything mary said
hello

paid and celebrated LOL bang that tambourine sista
Yes in a recession let's pay an economically inactive adult,for doing own thang,with own kids. Whilst others do tin in on minimum wage,to pay housewife at home

You couldn't make it up

This is like Social Economics 101.

FFS.

i should have guessed the thread was heading in this direction.

benifits blah blah blah im sick of this subject.

Really?thought you said us women stick together?
Lol,if ever proof needed of women not sticking together...just peruse mn

Yes, ok, oooh, one poster posited that women might stick together; another posits that they shouldn't or don't.

It's hardly earth-shattering.

women dont need to stick together as gasp we are capeable of independent thought and even dissent. I dont need to high five and cheer anyone solely in basis of gender

Is it ok for males to stick together? Solely on basis of gender?

oh i know, i just realised this is in a topic where i have never lurked and i will never darken its door again!

goodnight ladies

Milton Friedman strikes again.

well i feel bonded to women since becoming a mother & i feel i have a greater understanding of other circumstances which mums face.
im not saying everyone has to think like me.

you sound quite hostile scottishmum

You're bonded are you.to mums?
How flaky is that

Bonded by guilt, though

Are you sure the bonds work both ways?

flaky? or just long sighted?

situations change all the time, not all sahm are there by choice you know.

yy EN one of the unexpected pleasures about being a mother was having my eyes opened on how other women dealt with motherhood, and in so many diverse ways.

the whole experience

i am glad somone else is here for support! thanks cheesy!

I think we all know of the idea of guilt being chucked at us by the media, policy makers and government. Looking at EN's other posts, I think she is saying this and agreeing that it should be resisted.

that homogenization and we is all muthas that is really risible you think you give birth and suddenly you get other women?

That whole mother=deeper understanding,goddess shit actually is another societal layer of oppression. Once a woman you're deeper,more connected. Blah blah

I think to extrapolate a learning curve into 'godess shit' is unusual.

thanks for that line runner- whitty little soul arn't you!

no i dont 'get' other women i have a better undertanding and dont think that everything i say is right. my choices are mine. each to their own.

Feeling bonded to other women,because a mum?
Yep that's truly la la la thinking
All classes,ages, societal divisions....bonded by virtue of being a mum
That is well into mums are goddess territory

If we three agreed that 'goddess shit' exists, though (which I believe it does; have you read that crap by Miranda Green for a start), wouldn't that make us bonded?

In just a small way.

If you believe being mum bonds you,to others who happen to be mums too
It's a bit sad and lame

Im not defined by being mum,nor do i have to feel an affinity for all other mums

stop bickering and transition yourselves into my sacred tent of minge juices

and be nice