K999, I am not speaking here for mature women who know what they like/don't like
I am speaking about the influences on young people who are still trying to work out their sexuality, and their sexual tastes
Those influences are increasingly damaging, and increasingly in-your-face, IMO
you turn the tv on, or go to the Dr's waiting room with your little tot (as detailed on MN a couple of weeks ago) to be faced with the likes of Rihanna regaling us with how she loves the smell of sex in the air, how whips and chains excite her and strutting around dressed like a hooker
as a mature woman who no longer feels the need to fit in with her peers, I can handle it
my children, and everyone else's, cannot, and should not have to