To be honest, her stream of cutesy names for the female crotch got on my nerves. Say "cunt", woman, and get it over with.
This topic was discussed here a few weeks ago, and there were a fair number of women who do shave their pubic hair and didn't like being compared with porn stars. What Bidisha didn't do, in fact of course she didn't do it, was address the huge number of non-porny people who are shaving (men too) and have made it part of their view of what a normal person should be like. Maybe that's the reality of "the mainstreaming of pornography", but once it's happened, it's dishonest to ignore it.
You might as well do the same with shaving legs and armpits, or wearing high heels or cosmetics. It becomes an issue of telling women what they ought to want in the name of feminism. The theory is simple, but real life is a lot more complicated.