What should your vagina look like?

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I don’t know who on earth I can ask
this to but I’m worried my vagina isn’t normal.

So if I look with a mirror , I have the labia bit and then inside is pink fleshy bit with ridges in it. It’s not a black hole. It’s like a pink squishy thing covering the whole area with ridges in. It’s not popping out or outside the labia lip bit. It’s inside- is this what it’s meant to look like? I never looked before and have since had 2 children.

Please help I feel weird . I will attach a picture I found on the internet. So sorry for this weird question.

It sounds like a man wrote it.

I thought that too

Absolutely. I envisaged some perverted man getting a thrill out of that level of detail. Masturbating in his mother’s box room 🤣

I don't like the look of mine, but men have told me it looks nice.

I can see how it would probably be attractive on someone you care about.

In a just wanting to see every bit of them way

You can spot them a mile away!

I think it's either totally normal, or could be indicative of some sort of prolapse.

I looked when I was around 7 months pregnant with my first and I saw what I think you are describing.

Instead of a hollow tube / hole, it was kind of like a pink bit that had to be pushed back to get inside.

I panicked it was some sort of prolapse and went to the midwife.

She had a look but she couldn't see any issue and didn't really seem to know what I was talking about.

I think in the end she just said that all the pressure of pregnancy can push things down and out a bit and it should go back to normal once baby was born.

I think things did go back to normal. I haven't really looked, but I am pretty sure there is still pink flesh there, it's not just a hole. As a pp said, it's not just gaping open without a speculum or something.

I think what I saw in pregnancy was just everything been pushed down, closer to the entrance than I was used to seeing / feeling.

That should read "push past" not "push back"

I dont know if i can explain this feeling.

Sometimes find it strange that I have a vagina! It's a strange thing

Like it's a weird thing to have there, two lips.

Couldn't figure out what was odd about those gynoversity pictures....Then it clicked, where did all the pubic hair go??

Deffo not. More than happy to verify I’m a woman if needed 🤷

No it's ok.

Well I can’t do any more than offer 🙅‍♀️

Reckon that's a dude myself.

Or a complete fucking pervert - male or female (does happen with the latter, too). Grim.

Hairy hands.

Get a nurse appointment and ask
They will know if al is well

“I can take large girth” 🤢 yeah everything you wrote was said in a very sexual way.

What can I say I’m naturally a sexual person and not afraid to admit it.

Nobody cares. Read the room

Be a sexual person in your own life.

But don't just think about yourself, think about how you are upsetting other people.

You are making people uncomfortable by talking about your girthy dildos and your wide open wet vagina. We don't want to hear it.

We especially don't want to hear about your sex life and your girthy dildos, on a thread where an OP is asking advice about something as she is worried.

The fact it makes people uncomfortable is why they do it. Same reason perverts used to phone people up on landlines years ago and heavy breathe down the line etc. Some weirdos find it thrilling to force it upon people. @Truthbetolddd obviously got turned on by typing such a story publicly as well 🤣

Why are you just replying to me.

Why are you not replying to the other ten posters on here ,

who also said that you made them uncomfortable.

They deserve a response too.

I've pointed out to you that many many posters on this thread

have now said that you made them uncomfortable.

This wasn’t a sexual thread. It makes you sound like a man trying to get his rocks off. Just weird.

It would be like a man talking about a urine infection and you going on about how thick and hard your penis is when you need to wee.

Well I’ve deffo seen men talking about that on this place lol. But like I said many times happy to verify I’m a woman but every time I suggest it nobody wants to know 🤷‍♀️