Ha @AgualusasL0ver you're almost spot on: she wasn't that poster, but she was posting in agreement with a comment by that poster! Lovely virtual book haul by the way.
@bibliomania I'm also a fan of All Passion Spent. I love the idea of a character in her 80s suddenly deciding that she's had enough, and will live life on her own terms.
Your review of The Last Samurai was very interesting. I just read that novel recently and am still pondering what to make of it. I agree with what you say about the neurodivergence. There's something appealing about the way the characters aren't explicitly characterised as neurodivergent; they're just allowed to be the way they are. It's a massively original novel but I'm not sure I liked it exactly. I found it extremely sad in some ways. The mother and son are clearly both geniuses, but so isolated... Maybe I should have paid more attention to the side stories of the seven samurai and I would have found the novel more pleasurable!
I have an embarrassing weakness for internet gossip (in case people hadn't noticed, cough cough) and I was fascinated by a rather sad saga earlier this year, when Dewitt was offered a huge ($175k) literary prize (managed by Yale) but turned it down because her mental health was so poor, she didn't think she could meet the promotional requirements involved in accepting the prize (international travel, a day of filming, etc). She wrote an eloquent piece on substack explaining her decision. I felt very sorry for her, because I don't think she's exaggerating her mental health troubles at all (she has attempted to take her own life in the past). She's probably neurodivergent as well, which means that public appearances don't come as easily to her as they do to many others. It seems like a story symbolic of our times, in that it's not just being a genius writer that matters, it's being able to engage with all the ruthless self-marketing that comes with being a writer. Still... damn, for $175k, if I were an impoverished writer, I think I'd pop a lot of sedatives and try to jump through the promotional hoops 😳I do respect her decision to say no. The Guardian did a piece about it: https://www.theguardian.com/books/2026/apr/09/helen-dewitt-turns-down-windham-campbell-prize-unable-promote
The story has a happy ending, sort of, because upon learning of her plight, a libertarian think-tank called the Mercatus Center stepped in and awarded her the same amount of grant money, with no strings attached, which she accepted. The think tank seems rather politically dodgy, but who am I to judge.
My impression is that DeWitt's portrait of the amazing but troubled mother Sibylla in The Last Samurai is more than a little autobiographical (even though DeWitt herself doesn't have children).
[Edited because I put pound signs when I should have put dollars]