sorry this is going to be a long one, bear with me
ok, i think that like with all diets or eating plans you have to work with this so it suits you. I also can't be totally selfish and only eat when i am hungry as (especially at weekends) we eat as a family at mealtimes. so what i have been doing is just eating enough to ensure i will be hungry at around the mealtime. otherwise i am going to end up eating at totally different times to everyone else which is really impractical.
Dh and i always eat together around 8 in evenings during week, so am trying to make sure that if i have lunch late i don't eat too much so i will be hungry for my supper. Does that make sense ?
Today I have a mumsnetter city meet-up at 12:30 so I will be eating lunch areound 12:45. I haven't had breakfast yet, but am starting to feel peckish so I'll make sure I eat something shortly. Am in the office so it will either be an apple and bannana or a crumpet that I bought in from home. That way I should be hungry again by lunchtime.
Yesterday I was working from home so could suit myself. I had a croissant and jam at 11:30. A jacket pot with grated cheese and salad with proper dressing at 3:00. I was then hungry again by 8:00 to eat with dh.
"Do I eat exactly what I want ?" Well I haven't been eating chocolate sundaes at every meal if that's what you mean !!! But I have been eating what I fancy, and strangley those choices have been resonably healthy. I went out to eat Tues night and had a bit of garlic bread, a main course, and half a pudding. But I really didn't have a problem leaving the pudding as I was full.
"how good are you at this imagining thing" - i have a picture of me in my head wearing an outfit that i would wear if i was slim. That's my image and I find it quite easily to visualise myself in it doing all the stuff i do.
And no I haven't done the tapping yet. I need to re-read the exercises as apart from the imagining thing I haven't done them. But then again I haven't eaten any chocolate since I started this, and I honestly haven't felt like I needed or wnated any. And chocolate is SUCH a big thing for me.
Another thing I have noticed is that the food i am eating tastes so lovely. Probably cos i am aware of what i am eating instead of just stuffing it in.
I also seem to have changed my attitude to the kids. My ds1 had a croissant for breakfast this morning, he then asked for a second one. He ate half the second one and then said "I don't want anymore, I'm full". I used to mumble about wasting food etc etc. This morning I just said "Well if you're full that's fine" and chucked it in the bin. I so don't want my kids to grow up with my food obsessions.
Hope at least some of this makes sense.