@Cherryblossom81, well done for getting to 8st 4. I am with you, I still have fat on my thighs/tummy I would like to get rid of, hoping the last few pounds will make a difference.
Happy to reply about the food I eat. I don't count calories, I think it would make me obsess about what I am eating. A lot of what has helped has been that I started a new job in March that is almost all WFH with only occasional visits to the office. And DS1 is at uni and DS2 at 6th form so leaves early and is back late as he has a long commute. So I'm not thinking about snacks for teenagers all the time.
I have got myself into a morning routine of getting up and doing 30 mins exercise on my rebounder and then having breakfast.
I sit down with DH in the kitchen and we have a proper breakfast time every day together, for the first time ever. I have decaf skimmed milk cappuccino which he makes me. I usually eat either natural kefir or porridge made with skimmed milk, with some nuts and/or seeds and a piece of fruit. About once a week I have a boiled egg with a piece of fruit instead.
Mid morning I have another decaf coffee with skimmed milk.
At lunchtime DH and I take the dog out for a walk, which gives me more exercise. We make sure we take a proper hour break.
For lunch I make a big bowl of salad, but crunchy salad, not just leaves. Usually it has cucumber, tomato and avocado, but I also add some other things like celery, fennel, red pepper and a piece of fruit. I also add some protein like some nuts/seeds and/or a very small amount of cheese and maybe some olives. Usually I add raw sauerkraut or ACV and a little olive oil. I vary it so it's not the same each day. I also have a redbush tea with skimmed milk. And if I go to the office I pack up a lunchbox with a big salad like this in.
Around 4pm I have another redbush tea with skimmed milk. DH has WFH home for a long time and makes the hot drinks, he has established a good routine that I have fitted in with. I often feel like I want a small snack at this time and have been trying to wean myself off them.
But if I feel I need a boost to keep me going to the end of the day, I might have a couple of squares or dark chocolate of a couple of dates with some nuts. I have tiny bowls I put them in to stop me taking too many! Or I might have a little kefir with sone cacao powder and almonds stirred in. Our home office is on the 2nd floor so once I've got my snack I'm unlikely to go downstairs for more.
I do take some packaged biscuits to work, like Nairns oat biscuits in little packs of 2 that are low in sugar and saturated fat, as I often want to eat something late in the afternoon before my long drive home, but it's only once or twice a month. I also buy these for when we go hiking, which we tend to do when we go on holiday.
I have really tried hard to have a smaller dinner. I realised I just don't need loads of food when all I'm going to do is go to bed. I tend to make something for everyone but don't have the carbs that everyone else has, or only a small amount.
I might have baked haddock or salmon with lots of veg on the side, perhaps with a tiny bit of pesto for flavour. Or a homemade veg and chickpea curry. I will just have a bowl of that, whereas everyone else has rice and/or naan breads. Or I might make pasta for everyone else with a big lentil tomato sauce, which I pour over loads of vegetables.
At the weekend we tend to get some good quality steak mince and DH makes bolognase or chilli, which usually lasts us for 2 days as DS2 doesn't eat meat and DS1 is at uni so rarely here. I will often have the bolognase poured over lots of veg, or perhaps just a tiny bit of pasta and a little parmesan for flavour rather than the mound of grated cheddar I used to have.
If the others are having dessert, which they often do at the weekend, I just don't have any, or have a bit of dark chocolate or a couple of medjool dates. Occasionally I might share a 187ml can of red wine with DH, but not every weekend.
I do drink lots of water in the daytime. I try not to obsess about it but do weigh myself each morning when I get up. If I've put on a pound I remind myself to be restrained that day!