Fab thread Eddas congrats .
Well after my famed weight loss though I would add my two penneth in what helped me (5 stone in 5 months ouch).
Planning. Make sure you plan and buy ahead. Try to shop online then you will buy more of the "right foods".
This is not a time for fancy new recipes, keep it simple. The simpler it is, the easier it is.
Every night, that is every single night make sure your plate is at least half a plate of either salad or veg. Can have cheese sauce/gravy to make veg more bearable. The more veg you eat the more you will lose weight. Morrisons own eat smart/Weightwatcher meals/Tescos healthy living are all very low in cals and can be bumped up with veg. Very filling. Large bowl of muesli for breakfast and ryveta/diet soup for lunch.Small baked beans and brown pitta.
CUT OUT all potatoes/chips/roast potatoes/baked potatoes. Bread/baguettes/ciabatta. Toast. Pasta. The obvious, crisps/treats/choc/biscuits.Stodge.
If you don't have it in the house you CAN'T eat it and you are unlikely to go out at 9 at night unless you really are desperate.
If you are a serial snacker/stress eater, then you can snack all day if you like just aslong as it it the right kind of snack.
Ryveta and extra light soft cheese and mango chutney does it for me. Could also try cherry tomatoes, cucumber sticks, olives, matzos crackers.
Try to avoid eating out as this is almost impossible to do and "be good".
Diet drinks, coke zero. Great for filling you up and can be treated a snack. And don't forget to drink water at least 6-8 glasses.Options 37 cal hot choc for choc cravings.
Alcohol. Limit to one night a week. The more you drink the more you will want to eat.
And the dreaded exercise. Whatever you do and you will double your weight loss.
This may sound a bit hitlerish but it WORKS and you won't have to do it forever because it is QUICK weightloss.
And sheer bloody determination. You deserve to lose weight.