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MFP Thread 7

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Not2bObvious · 26/11/2016 03:46

Continued chat for those using MFP as a weight loss tool

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Sugarandsalt · 16/01/2017 21:28

Kitchen closed here at 1250. 14000 steps and a 30minute exercise session.

I need to find that Claire Sweeney show. It's probably on YouTube.

Need I love Jamie's traybakes. He does fantastic chicken ones which I alter to my own liking. I love a siracha/honey chicken traybake now. Your DM sounds wonderful-hopefully she doesn't live too close!

I certainly can't give marriage advice as we've only been married 3 years (although together 13). Are all the husbands supportive of weight loss efforts? DH is generally but I know he gets a bit fed up of my obsessive calorie counting at times.

JontyDoggle37 · 16/01/2017 22:02

Well done everyone on the good kitchen close counts! Just came in to post mine - 1543, which is only 43 over target. Super pleased with myself!😁 Just sat in bed putting tomorrows food in MFP so I have a plan with me to follow. Tomorrow I will stay within 100 cals of target agin!

Not2bObvious · 16/01/2017 22:43

Haha sugar, you're a newly wed! Mine is supportive but weary at this stage, I've been on a diet for around 18 of the 20 years we're together. Mind you, it was going with him that started the proper bulge. If I could go back in time -> Note to 22 year old self, can't eat/drink same as 6ft+ manHmm
Yes Claire sweeney one is on YouTube and it's brilliant! Tried on the dress again and the gap isn't as bad as previously thought, 2-3 inches, fine at waist, fine at above bra strap, it's from the upper waist to boob area. But it is absolutely beautiful and I ache to fit into it. And I have a feeling I will ache a LOT with the efforts this will take but she who dares may just win😉 It even has my favourite thing, pockets!

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JontyDoggle37 · 17/01/2017 06:28

Not 2-3 inches should be doable. And what a great motivation to have. We've just booked a week's holiday in May to Majorca, but that feels too far away to really make me crack on. I've also booked a girls day out for a big shopping trip 18th March with a friend who is also dieting (she's amazing, she's lost 6.5 stone in the last year and is still going!). That's actually only 7 or 8 weeks away. And I really want some new black jeans, and maybe some Capri pants for summer, in a size 10....hmm time to get focused! Weight was still 10.7.5 this morning, but after weekend self-sabotage I'll take that. If i stay on track today, i'll see a loss tomorrow.

Not2bObvious · 17/01/2017 06:38

Sounds like you & me have a similar goal - my weekend away is the same weekend you're meeting your pals jonty, and a week after my dress date. So you've got about 8.5 weeks to go. You're now weightwise we're I'd love to be by then. You mustn't be nearly as badly behaved as you think, you're doing great! We can egg each other on😉 I'm eyes "on the dress", you're "eyes on the capris" What's your ultimate goal, is it a weight or a size?
Scales is reporting a v surprising 11.5.2 but it shot all over the place a lá biggest loser scales style before it settled on that. I'm won't believe it until it stays the same tomorrow/next day. I was the same weight from Tuesday to Friday last week (11.6.4) If I could start February in the 10's, that would make my year

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JontyDoggle37 · 17/01/2017 06:58

Not my goal is 9st9. Very slim but not too thin!

Not2bObvious · 17/01/2017 07:09

That's brilliant, less than a stone to go jonty, my dream weight is 9.11 but I think it's probably too lofty/light for me - I can't fathom how I'd look 22lb lighter. I'm going to start to rethink that number - maybe 10.3 would be nice. I definitely be a real size 10 then. At a pound a week you'd be very close to it by your shopping day.

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JontyDoggle37 · 17/01/2017 07:44

Not just set yourself five pound goals and every time you get to one, set the next one and see how far you can go - don't defeat yourself at the start by saying you could never achieve it though!

Bathsheba3 · 17/01/2017 08:26

You will def be well into the 10s by then Not, if you even manage 1 lb / week, with a starting of 11 5. GO for it. You'll def make that dress.

You'll make your target too Jonty, now you're back in the zone.

Great day for you yesterday Sugar, calories, steps and exercise in the bag too. Remind me where you are at and where you are headed?

Bad News. I braved the scales this morning, and sure enough, after my binge weekend I'm up to 11 9.

Good News. I finished yesterday 1070 calories, and I am absolutely determined to log everything into MFP again, and stick to 1200 cals for the next 6 weeks to get into the 10's for beginning March. 10 12 is my goal. I'm going to do it. I'm on a mission.

Sadly my lower back is still out which scuppers any plans for exercise Sad. Back to osteopath later today. Catch up later ...

Sugarandsalt · 17/01/2017 09:51

Bath we are at a very similar place- 11st 9.5lbs, aiming for the 10s. After my disastrous December anyway! I seem to get stuck at this point so I've upped my exercise for now to try avoid the plateau that lead to me falling off the wagon before. I have a wedding in march and would love to be in the 10s for that.

Not I watched the Claire Sweeney thing. She really went mad didn't she! I know they said she was just to let go and eat as she wanted but I can't imagine she really wanted to eat that much! Her BMI wasn't even bad at the end but she's quite apple shaped so she did look bigger. Good to have a small waist. It's the only thing that makes me feel better about my weight- my small waist means it's purely aesthetics at this point for me.

Food today- porridge for breakfast, lunch is a Lentil, roast carrot, kale and feta salad. Dinner will be chicken+prawn curry. Snack of an apple. 1350cals.

Not2bObvious · 17/01/2017 10:06

Oh poor bath, I hope you get relief from the pain. I hate back pain. I'd love to lose 5lb at a time jonty but I just seem to keep losing & regaining it, I honestly despair of myself. Oh well I have to keep going, the alternative sucks even more.
She proper gorged herself didn't she sugar, but honestly I've done that - I did it when I was pregnant the first time. I stopped weighing myself 6 weeks before the birth and I was close on 16 stone, I reckon I was 17+ at birth. I started at 13.7 with both babies, and funnily enough left the hospital with both about 15 stone. The second time I didn't get as big but still close to 16 stone - and that pregnancy I was super careful.
Another lean day planned, gym later but v tired. Bad sleep

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Bathsheba3 · 17/01/2017 12:29

I've been food shopping, and have sugar to thank for my basket of cod, lentils & kale, parsley, diced carrots & swede Wink. Yum!

Not2bObvious · 17/01/2017 13:57

V nutritious shopping bath, don't worry about the minor scale blip - couple of days on track eating will fix that. I'm sure it's just junk bloat. I feel quite rubbish after 4 hours sleep, but I'm booked in for my class so that's that. Not going to overthink it.

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Sugarandsalt · 17/01/2017 14:00

She really really did gorge herself! I've done it too to be honest, but in a half consciously self destructive manner. It's hard to explain! Bath glad I inspired you. I have learned that there is a huge shortage of courgettes at the moment- so there will be less courgetti for me! Funny I was just commenting that Sainsbury's online no longer had them and thought it was odd.

Just had my very filling salad for lunch. Hopefully will keep me going until dinner, which is generally quite late in my house.

JontyDoggle37 · 17/01/2017 17:38

Evening all. Don't think I'm going to watch the Claire Sweeney thing, I don't need to watch someone eat cake!
Bath well done on the healthy shop and Sugar on the healthy salad!
Not even if it comes off half a pound at a time, it will come off, as long as you hang in there.
My cough has been really bad today, so ended up buying a skinny latte on the way to the train this evening, just to try and soothe my throat and stop me coughing all the way home. That was going to put me more than 100 over target, but I've just adjusted the dinner menu to remove some sweet potato, and I think that keeps me within 100 then, justbgot to update MFP in a minute. Must have been the night for bad sleep last night, I only got 3-4 hours, DS was awake with teething pains from 2.30-4.30. Getting 'migraine eyes' this afternoon as a result. Get son to bed, Cook dinner and early bed for me tonight. DH is a bit in the wars too - he has epilepsy and being up half the night with DS last night too has made him feel quite unwell today though thankfully no actual fits so far. Hoping for a better night and a healthier day for us all tomorrow! 😁

Not2bObvious · 17/01/2017 18:29

Well I survived the gym...just. It was hard though, nearly 4 weeks since I last went. Just finished slow cooker beef and it was delicious, if I close the kitchen now I'm on around 1150. Can't think of much I can have for 50 cals! I'd say I'll be like Lego in the morning😩
jonty the lack of sleep really brings on thumpers of headaches. Now that I think of I wonder was it my vv low calorie day, I used to have that problem when I did 5:2, found it really hard to sleep. Although tbf, I'm a rubbish sleeper regardless!

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DawheadAwgusEeentock · 17/01/2017 19:10

See - there you all go again - being absolutely lovely to me - thank you all for being so nice Flowers.

Bath wow what a good start yesterday - 1070 is brilliant. Agree with Not back issues are awful - hope the osteopath is sorting you out. 9lbs is definitely do-able by March - esp as you're likely to have a whoosh when you've started back so strongly.

Not 2-3 inches isn't as bad at all. I think I have the same Spanx as Bath and Sugar too Grin - is the one where you can wear your own bra? It might be worth considering as a fallback option esp if you just end up with 1/2 inch to go.
Ah - just saw your update! Before you posted I was going to (nicely) give out and say 750 sounds v low - and that I was worried it might be affecting your sleep. I'm glad you're up a bit today, especially with doing your gym session - well done on starting back! You can definitely get into the 10s by February too at this rate.

Loli Flowers for the anniversary but it's great that you can mark the occasion with such a positive achievement like Jonty said. You have done brilliantly in so many ways.

Jonty you are dead right that we are here to support each other - even when we're not 100% ourselves. That's a brilliant start back yesterday - you're being very diligent on MFP swapping calories around today.
Also great that you've a few things to look forward to but Brew for the bad sleep and poor DS and DH. Does anyone remember Dozol for teething pains Grin or was that an Irish/Dawhead thing only.

Sugar you're absolutely right about alternatives to the G&T - I wish I'd checked in here last night... Those are brilliant days for you again yesterday and today. What's the online PT like?
It's difficult to say if my H is supportive. He does try - but I can't remember if I ever mentioned the 'jeans have probably stretched' comment? He is very overweight too though. I guess I was hoping I would inspire him, but there's no sign of him doing anything to help himself yet. At least there is less rubbish coming into the house because of what I'm doing.

Need gosh I am hoping your Mum said that in some sort of weird jokey way. Otherwise I just echo what Not and Sugar said. The emotional eating must be a runner/athlete Wink thing. My runner friend is the same as you - can't eat at all when she's stressed. Although I will say, now that I've (hopefully) put the chocolate binging to bed forever, I do find I'm trying to process my emotions more (in baby steps) instead of leaping on food straight away.

Hi Sesame hope you're doing ok and busy for nice reasons.

Bath You were asking about my work issues. Long story (isn't everything with me haha) but basically, I'm having to deal with a v difficult colleague. We go back 10 years but in 2015 he got a job on my team (inadvertently with my help). He then decided he had an issue working with me now that we were on the same team (a few of us that know him reckon it was b/c he felt threatened by me) and I realised he started trying to gaslight me - I wouldn't have even recognised the behaviour without MN. Luckily I got away from having to work with him, but now we have to work on a project together for the next 3 months. I honestly don't know how I'm going to cope with him - I feel ill just hearing his voice on the phone. And my boss isn't interested - we are peers and if I complain I know it'll just reflect badly on me. I just keep telling myself how lucky I am that I don't have anyone like that in my personal life (and evil-ly hoping that karma bites him eventually Angry).

I'm a bloody fruitcake really amn't I with all the drama Blush.

Anyway, did have a G&T last night (that did me no good - I had a bad sleep too!) and ate lots of snacks so finished on 2000 Hmm. Today is better - chicken korma for dinner so 1490 in MFP so far. Won't have a drink tonight but can't be sure yet that I won't have some cake/biccies - although it's been a non-stressful day yay. Weekly average is now at 1770 so if can keep close to that it means I've eaten 4,200 cals less than last week, so it's progress albeit v slow.

Bathsheba3 · 17/01/2017 20:12

That work situation sounds an utter nightmare Dawhead - no wonder it is so stressful, and as you say there is little you can do about it. Difficult colleagues are the pinnacle I reckon. At least with difficult clients you can have a moan to your colleagues about them but not in an email cc'g them in though, that would be very bad indeed ahem ahem Wink

Karma, yes indeed. But won't harm to toughen-up that body armour too. Consciously imagine it on, and the stuff he is saying will bounce straight off. I can't suggest anything for the gas lighting. How very frustrating. Dignity is another MN term I like.

My osteopath worked a dream, hopefully. I especially like the fact you remain fully clothed. Last think I want with back pain is the sheer embarrassment of someone poking your raw flesh telling you to relax when you know your back bulge has slid under your armpits!

Am so pleased you made it to the gym Not. I was egging you to go, even with being so tired. Steer clear of the kitchen now - a few more of those 50 calories in the bank will soon turn to inches off. I hope you sleep well this evening, and you too Jonty. Those baby / toddler times were very tough.

My cod, lentils and kale was delicious, thank you sugar. What's on the menu tomorrow?!

Hope there will be good news with weight-losses from Loli and Sesame soon. Keep going ladies - we are all going to nail this. 10s for some of us, 9's and 11s for others, and maintain for Need Smile

Needastrongone · 17/01/2017 20:20

Slow and consistent progress Daw. I think that's the best way. I'm not sure about these very low calorie days anyway, I think they lead to a binge imho. Better consistent 1700 maybe? My mother is a long story that I won't bore you all with, but she did mean what she said. She has damaged me a lot over the years but not in terms of eating. I'm so sorry the work situation is less than great, you colleague sounds dreadful, and you boss no better to not recognise what is happening.

Well done on the healthy shopping folk, if the bad stuff isn't in the house, it can't be eaten!

Well done on doing the class Not, if it becomes a habit, it will get easier I promise. I like your goals and Jonty's too re the dress and capri pants

My DH isn't supportive of diets. Which is because I have never ever dieted before. This is the closest I have come to even looking at calories and this is more about fitness and health and essentially running faster....Eating well for life, which seems more sustainable I guess? That being said, I wasn't happy being 8st 9lb and I am glad I am not that now, it's too heavy for my build and height. I only started putting on weight mid 40's, but glad it's gone. Smile

Wow Jonty at how much weight your friend has lost, incredible achievement.

It's been a busy day today.

Breakfast - granola, yogurt, mango.
Lunch - egg on toast, mixed berry pot from M&S.
Dinner - prawn and fennel risotto.
Snack - glass of wine, handful of olives.

Exercise - cardio and core class, 6 mile run with my running buddy, 4 miles with the dogs, so nearly 30k steps.

About 1500 calories, so loads of excess.

Not a hungry day at all, had to force myself into eating something even after running and the class.

Needastrongone · 17/01/2017 20:23

Bath, did the osteopath do that clicky thing with your back? When they kind of realign everything and it makes that incredible noise? Glad it's worked anyway. That's the main thing.

Bathsheba3 · 17/01/2017 20:39

He tried to Need, but it didn't work today. I think I was too tense. He managed to click it when I went last Friday, and it was blissful. I was so ecstatic I could move again I came home & did full house clean, stripped and remade 3 beds. Rather silly in hindsight!

Not2bObvious · 17/01/2017 21:08

I dream of that click bath...it sounds blissful. Kitchen stayed closed at 1150 - hurrah!
dawg I've had a couple of work colleagues like that and they were basically passive aggressive arse holes who were threatened by me. Knowing that didn't fix it, but it went a way towards me knowing there was little I could do about their insecurities (and I was deadly, they were pants😉). You just keep being yourself & f**k their problems. People like that want to push your buttons so you'll look silly - believe me it's in their makeup and you won't be the only person they've shown this side too. Or as my mum would say (she wasn't always a wagon) "don't you mind them pet, they're only jealous of you, head high" 😘
Time for the bedtime story here, they're getting nearly too big but I'm hanging onto the loveliness of it

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Sugarandsalt · 17/01/2017 21:41

Jonty I hope you didn't get a migraine. Nothing worse. Hope your DH is ok too, small kids can really play havoc with epilepsy. Not slow cooker beef is lovely- I do a brisket with a canellini bean and leek mash and love it. Well done on getting back to gym.

Dawhead the work situation sounds very stressful. Hopefully your new found confidence is helping you deal with it. I remember Dozol anyway! Bath well done on good day and hope back continues to improve. Cod is on my menu tomorrow, you got ahead of me! You're probably all gathered that I enjoy meal planning- I try to organise a set of lunches/dinners which leave minimal waste. Hence lentil Salad + cod with lentils in one week etc!

Need your activity levels are amazing! When my DD is old enough to allow me escape more I plan to do similar!

Not my dad used to read to us well after I was reading novels by myself but I loved it!

I'm really tired this week. Fitbit says I'm not sleeping well. Who knows. Standard day. 17000 steps and managed 45mims with my online PT. He says I'm great anyway. 1400cals in.

Sugarandsalt · 17/01/2017 21:53

No more courgetti for us either...

Sugarandsalt · 17/01/2017 21:54

Link fail. No more courgetti