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A space to talk openly about weight loss journeys and challenges. Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. You may wish to speak to a medical professional before starting any diet.

Anyone else just eating healthier/less and moving more?

459 replies

KnickKnome · 03/01/2015 21:58

I've tried every diet known to man (and done quite well on some- I was down 50 lbs before Christmas, though dreading seeing the damage an all inclusive holiday and Christmas has done!)

I've had enough of counting calories/points/syns or whatever. I'm fed up of following plans or drinking shakes. What I really want to do, after years of yo yo dieting, is to eat healthy stuff (not low fat stuff though) that excites me, in slightly smaller portions and do exercise that I enjoy. I want to cut down/out fizzy drinks (already cut these out), sugary foods, chocolate, processed stuff etc.

I not only want to lose weight, I want to lose it (and enjoy it whilst doing it) and maintain it. Yes it's a cliche, but I don't want to diet, I want a lifestyle change. I want to be able to go out to a restaurant for special occasions and not worry over how many syns/points etc the food will 'cost' me, but be able to enjoy it. I don't even know if this makes sense, but after spending so long on different plans, I'm so excited to just eat stuff that's not dictated to me, but stuff I think I should be eating.

I've just done a meal plan for next week, and an online food shop which has got me really excited to start (yes, I'm weird! Grin)

I still need to lose at least another 50 lbs. Does anyone want to join me?

OP posts:
lowcrabdiet · 28/01/2015 19:30

Gaaaaaaah someone make me get off this sofa and exercise. I'm so lazy this wee!!!

nevergooglebrandybutter · 28/01/2015 19:52

how about a nice stretch on the floor while you watch the tv? once you're down there you could throw in some bridges or planks. think how nice it will feel to stretch your back out after a long day.

(i'm off to bed though, knackered)

lowcrabdiet · 28/01/2015 20:30

I demand some sort of paradE in my honour. 20 mins of jumping about to a Davina dvd completed Grin what a mammoth task it felt like though.

Isn't it wierd how sometimes motivation just leaves you and things that have seemed so easy or enjoyable suddenly become mammoth tests of willpower!

lowcrabdiet · 28/01/2015 20:31

Thanks for the motivation nevergoogle I like your thinking. But ultimately it was a friend of mine shouting at me via Facebook that did the trick Wink

nevergooglebrandybutter · 28/01/2015 21:04

ok, good to know. I'll go for some harsher encouragement next time.Shock

Silverjohnleggedit · 28/01/2015 21:09

I'm impressed Lowcrab I've been slouching on the sofa all evening but I've taken the pup out for 3 walks today and he's completely exhausted, even ran a little while I was out!

Nevergoogle that's very encouraging that the Paul McKenna hypnosis worked - even just in the short term. Sugar is my achilles, I need to learn to control the beast.

TheDemented I meal plan but I don't cook low calorie food. I usually have a bowl of thick homemade veg soup (bulk made and frozen), with a protein like cheese, ham or bacon and a dollop of full fat greek yogurt. Usually this will use anywhere between 3-400kcal.
And then I have a normal dinner but no seconds and plenty of veg and probably less carbs on the plate. Tonight I had a chicken and pomegranate stew and served it with cauliflower rice. This will be anywhere from 500-800kcal and apart from lots of milky tea that's all I eat, no snacks, no breakfast. After Friday I'll be back on the sauce, so my calorie intake will resume to higher levels and weight loss will be at snails pace - I'm very fond of wine. Blush

MrsHooolie · 28/01/2015 21:15

Hi everyone.
Cake sale at work yesterday and ate shit loads as predicted. I felt gross when I went to bed. Straight back in the saddle today,I did the Shred dvd again,I was even looking forward to it so I think things are changing. I want to feel fit,like I did before I got pregnant with DC1.
Also,although I'm doing My Fitness Pal I still think my portion sizes are too big so will be working on that.
Watching 'fat,the fight of my life' with Jesse Pavelka. It's so inspiring and he is so hot!
Today's food diary...
Breakfast- porridge with banana and flaked almonds. (I have this every day diet or not!)

Lunch-Chilli con carne with brown rice

Tea- boiled egg on 1 slice of multiseed bread.
And some healthy snacks here and there.

lowcrabdiet · 28/01/2015 21:31

good work on the walking and jogging Silverjohn I piled on loads of weight after our dog passed away. You dont realise how important a couple of walks a day can be! Well I didnt anyway Blush

MsHoolie I love the shred but haven't done it in ages sue to push ups and dodgy wrists atm.

Re your bake sale. I may well have donE the same as you in that positIon. I went to buy my husband a birthday cake today and managed to put 3 swiss rolls in my basket as well as the cake. I thought better of it as I was standing in the checkout queue. But it was a close call!

Thedemented I don't meal plan as well as I should. We plan which evening meals we will have when doing the online shop. But I'm crap at planning lunches for work days, really crap. So I need to sort that out!

MrsHooolie · 28/01/2015 23:36

I'm Rubbish at the press ups,I only do the ones on my knees. When I try to do real ones I can only move about 2cms!Better than nothing I suppose.

nevergooglebrandybutter · 29/01/2015 07:52

I have met my goal for January. I am now a new and improved 12st 0lbs.

Looking forward to seeing an 11 on the scales.

MrsHooolie · 29/01/2015 08:50

Well done nevergoogle.
Feels great when you go down to a new big number on the scales.
My scales are going down slowly but I think I've lost inches rather than weight. I can definitely feel it.
Not sure I'll ever lose my Mum Tum overhang though Confused

lowcrabdiet · 29/01/2015 09:30

nevergoogle that is brill! Well done!

I have lost 1 lb this week, I'm very pleasantly surprised. That totals 10lbs this month.

Yesterday 3 people commented on how much I'd lost, so I'm feeling pretty chuffed.

It's given me the strength to resist having (my husband's) birthday cake for breakfast today

lowcrabdiet · 29/01/2015 09:32

MrsHoolie that's a lot better than I can manage. Even when I could put weight on my wrists I could only do knee push ups

nevergooglebrandybutter · 29/01/2015 11:04

yes a lovely new number. the first was 16. bring it on number 11, come have a go if you think you're hard enough.Grin

Silverjohnleggedit · 29/01/2015 12:30

Well done nevergoogle from 16 to 12 is fabulous! What's your next target?

I did my first proper push up last year - I was ecstatic, only took 2 years of trying Hmm my upper body strength is a tad pathetic.

AimlesslyPurposeful · 29/01/2015 13:03

Sorry for going AWOL everyone. Just can't seem to eat sensibly so being on the thread seemed pointless.

Anyway, have had a couple of better days and feel ready to try again. Also feeling inspired having read through the thread to see lots of lbs have been shifted and a triathlon (Wow!) on the cards.

So, 10st 1lb this morning. My birthday is at the end of Feb so hopefully 8lbs off by then.

lowcrabdiet · 29/01/2015 16:54

nevergoogle that is brilliant! You are my absolute thinspiration! What is your goal weight?

My old 'fat' weight (13.7) is my new target weight! It's crazy really!

I would love to get down to 12stn but I'm afraid that may be beyond me these days. But who knows maybe if I keep hanging out with you guys it might just be possible Smile

lowcrabdiet · 29/01/2015 17:04

Aimlessly it's so hard to stay in track sometimes isn't it! I struggle the most when I'm hungry. So I'm trying to eat big healthy meals very regularly.

You can definitely do 8lbs by your birthday I reckon Smile

I've decided that my next goal is to be 14stn by March.

In other news my gp sent me back for more xrays as he thinks they might have missed a fracture. Unfortunately the radiographer says definitely no fracture on the new xrays, but I overheard them talking to the student radiographer about further degeneration in the joints of my hand.

I'd got quite attached to the idea of it being a repairable fracture. Was even planning the colour of my cast. Now I'm back to having pensioner joints, but no pension Confused

nevergooglebrandybutter · 29/01/2015 19:36

I must confess that a fair chunk of my 16 was in fact a big chunky baby who breastfed tirelessly until a few weeks ago, so not entirely down to willpower, but lots of exercise and healthy eating since he turned 8 weeks I think.

my next goal is 8lbs in 6 weeks. I only do short term goals as the big picture is too frightening to think about all at once.

long term goal is a healthy bmi I guess.

lowcrabdiet · 29/01/2015 20:55

nevergoogle your still beating me. I was 12stn when I got pregnant. 16stn just before I delivered. And was 15.7 stn on his 3rd birthday.

We have just had take away coz I'm a lazy bugger. But I resisted pizza for a chicken kebab again, but this time I only ate half the pitta bread and didn't open the sauce tubs.

Seem to be getting better at controlling portion sizes and leaving food on my plate

ToastedOrFresh · 29/01/2015 21:41

Hello everyone,

I'm having a crack at mindful eating. I've done the calorie counting/low fat diet thing.

My problem is emotional eating. I've put back on the significant amount of weight that I lost (which took two and a half years to lose) due to a near disastrous emigration followed by me being unemployed for up to a year at a time. The continual knock backs with or without interview mean my self esteem/self confidence can usually be found on the floor. So I bury my emotions under food and eating once again.

So, I just needed to find a diet and crack on. I've got Paul McKenna's weight loss hypnotherapy which I listen to. So, I'm learning to eat mindfully, stopping when I'm full up. Even he advocates the eating of fresh, natural food. I got this several years ago. Funny how we return to the things that have worked in the past.

I still observe the tenets of low fat i.e. I don't eat butter, mayonnaise, lard, or oil. I avoid fried food or things served with oil or melted butter.

I do weigh portions of rice or pasta or potatoes before cooking, for me it's just a good habit.

Exercise is really the only thing that is going to sort out my weight loss. I have heard it said you can't out exercise a poor diet. OK, guilty as charged.

I go to a 30 minute circuit training class twice a week. I also do a mini triathlon each week, just as a personal challenge, nothing formal. It's just eight lengths of our local 25metre pool followed by fifteen minutes on the static bike as our pool has a gym on the mezzanine overlooking the pool. I then jog or walk home.

I usually reward myself with food after a hard exercise session. OK, I am genuinely hungry but evolution kicks in and the diet goes out of the window. I eat healthily but plenty of it ! I admit to feeling entitled because I've exercised. This can be called, 'calorie compensation' a lot of people do it and it's counter productive !

I've read in a diet and fitness magazine this week that if you do an exercise you enjoy, you are unlikely to reward yourself with food.

So, atm I'm enjoying the circuit training as it's new to me and as it's only 30 mins I try to make the most of the time available.

My own mini triathlon that I do is interesting to me as I used to marshal at triathlons and marvel at how people could do 3 different exercises one after the other.

I will weigh myself on Sunday as it's the first of the month and I haven't weighed myself since New Year's Day. I'm hoping to weigh myself on the first of the month for the rest of this year to take the pressure off the weekly weigh in. When I lost a significant amount of weight I weighed myself monthly, just being pleased for whatever I'd lost not getting hung up on specific targets, save to say a loss is expected/earned.

Silverjohnleggedit · 30/01/2015 07:15

Welcome toasted and good luck with your plan.
Sorry to hear about your dog Lowcrab they leave such a big hole in your life when they go. Sad
Aimlessly no point in regrets, don't make yourself feel bad for past choices. Getting in the zone is half the battle.

Saw my consultant yesterday and he has decided on the default asthma diagnosis - we've ruled out all the nasties and if the inhaler keeps my breathing problems in check then we have a solution....so I'm quietly optimistic and I'm off those damned oral steriods.

I think the lovely thing about this group is that we are all doing it our own way, using what we have learned about ourselves from previous attempts to control our weight and from the recent Horizon programme that's exactly what we need to do.

New targets for Feb I'm being a bit more realistic because I'll be drinking again but hopefully I'll be moving more so hoping for a 4lb loss, I have around 10lb more to go but I need to keep at it and stay focused and usually I fall off the diet wagon at the end of January with predictable consequences.

nevergooglebrandybutter · 30/01/2015 09:19

i think you are right silverjohn. the CBT book i read recommended listing each of the diets you have tried, how much weight you lost, how much you regained, what bits worked and what didn't to help you learn from the 'diets' in the past and tailor one that works for you. i don't believe there is a best way to lose weight that will suit everyone.

lowcrabdiet · 30/01/2015 15:05

Hi toasted wow, more triathletes in the house! I'm in awe!

Silverjohn so pleased to see you have a diagnosis now and are off the oral steroids.

I agree that one of the reasons I'm able to stick with this thread is because we are all doing our own thing. There is no pressure to follow someone else's rules or copy their goals (although I'm quietly copying quite a lot of what you all talk about).

Birthday cake update... 48 hours after purchasing and I still haven't eaten any! DH and DS have been happily tucking in and I haven't even so much as hoovered up the crumbs from their plates Wink

MrsHooolie · 30/01/2015 22:09

Impressive not eating the cake!
I had a bit of red wine after work tonight,went to the pub and really needed it.
Feel like I've lost more than what the scales say,quite weird but I feel so much better. My fitness pal is really helping especially with the iPhone pedometer thingy meaning I get bit more calorie allowance.
Have a good weekend everyone!