Thanks everyone so so much. You're all lovely and very kind.
I really think this woe could work as apart from eggs, the meat and veg and few fruits sounds perfect. Dd wasn't on dairy until recently as it used to make her skin worse and that would make her more sensitive to her allergies, but she has recently gt into eating cheese so the cauliflower cheese recipe sounds lovely.
I'll start adding salt back I to the dishwasher. I find it's the bottom of upturned cups that collect water so I do try and place things so they don't but hadn't thought that they may get flipped during the wash.
Re the mayo, I think that the egg one should be okay. It's just the cooking of eggs that I think would be the problem.
Re the cooking thing, DD is actually allergic to the diet I had growing up. I'm Indian so grew up on chappatis, lentils, mung beans etc sothe things I grew up learning to cook were those foods, so in a way I do have to learn to cook again. The roast idea sounds great and simple. DP has a big appetite so will have to train him so we do have leftovers. Cooking evey 2 -3 days sounds doable.
Could I use mashed swede instead of celeriac for a shepherds pie topping? Celeriac is the root of celery which I didn't know until today? Could I also use swede to make chips and crisps?
Thanks again everyone. Xxx