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A space to talk openly about weight loss journeys and challenges. Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. You may wish to speak to a medical professional before starting any diet.

THE ULTIMATE WEIGHT LOSS PLAN EVER!!! COME AND JOIN US AND PAUL MCKENNA !!

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Solo · 25/07/2011 10:15

The Golden Rules that will aid you on your journey with our like minded support system:

  1. Eat what you WANT
  2. Eat when you are HUNGRY
  3. Eat CONCIOUSLY
  4. STOP when you are satisfied

I've C&P'd part 5's links as they are helpful.

Here is the book on AMAZON which is all you need to get started!

This is the tapping technique EXPLAINED - this can be useful for cravings.

Please feel free to join us. We are friendly, supportive and successful but we're not hungry!!! so come on in :)

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Solo · 03/08/2011 22:43

Bad news ladies. The dress ~ yes the dress does not fit me! Lord knows what's happened, but it's tight and uncomfortable and I look as pg as I did at 6 months with Dd...don't know what the hell I can do! am at the point of crying tbh. I've let myself down, even though I've not put weight on since buying the frock. It could be water retention, but that doesn't usually go until after my Aunty has left and she's not leaving before Sunday. The ball is on Saturday.

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posterofagirl · 03/08/2011 22:48

Hello all, can I join in?

I've been at it for about a fortnight now. Not sure if I've lost any weight yet but feeling much more positive.

I am also doing shred to shift the six stone I managed to put on while pregnant

Alibabaandthe80nappies · 03/08/2011 23:03

Solo - I know we don't diet here but needs must. If you low carb from now then that will shift the bloat.

Hello poster - yes come on in Grin

Niecie · 03/08/2011 23:38

Hi posterofagirl - the more the merrier. Join in any time. Smile

Solo - Oh no what a bummer? Sad Is the dress tight all over or is it just your tummy? Can you beg, borrow or steal some control pants? I was thinking that drinking more water might help so I googled to make sure I wasn't suggesting something that made the bloat worse and found this Might be worth a try.

Or maybe some sort of supplement?

Solo · 04/08/2011 01:15

Thanks Ali and Niecie. I have decided to detox for Thurs, Fri and Saturday until the meal itself.

I will drink water or fruit/herb tea only and eat lean meat, fish, salad and the allowed veg. No spuds, pasta, bread or cereals, no dairy. As you say; needs must.
Am off out shopping again tomorrow, just in case. If I do buy a bigger or a different fitting dress, I'll keep all labels on. If I can lose the bloat by ball night, I'll wear the planned dress and take back the second one. If I can't then I'll just have to wear choice 2. That's if I can find another frock!!!
Everything crossed please ladies. Everything crossed!

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ppeatfruit · 04/08/2011 08:35

Oh what a PITA solo!With the herbals try a strong nettle tea and drink it all day (but stay near a loo!!) 'cos that's brill for detoxing! i'm crossing everything Smile

Alibabaandthe80nappies · 04/08/2011 08:43

Solo good luck, you can do it. I have woken up feeling really heavy and strange.

It is pouring here and my bloody Sky has broken! A whole day stuck indoors with no Cbeebies.

TheOriginalFAB · 04/08/2011 09:14

ALi - not sure what my clothes are saying but I think the skirt I wore yesterday felt better. I haven't worn it for ages though so not sure.

Solo - good luck with the detoxing. You can do it.

Welcome to new people.

I have nother random question. Every time I listen to the PM CD I seem to hear different things that I have missed before Confused.

Niecie · 04/08/2011 09:19

Good luck Solo - Got everything crossed for you. Smile

FAB - if you listen to the CD on speakers rather than headphones it is very weird. There are two tracks running at once. It is very possible you are hearing different things running at different times because you are probably tuning into different voices (they are both PMK btw) each time you listen. I suppose it is all part of the hypnotism.

It's my birthday today. 45!

Nobody expect a good day from me. Grin

TheOriginalFAB · 04/08/2011 09:35

I am listening to it via small ear pieces.

Happy Birthday!!

Solo · 04/08/2011 10:13

Happy Birthday Niecie!!! 45? Pah!!! that's nothing! Wink

I will try the nettle tea. Actually, I've got some rather nice dandelion tea here, so will give that a go.

Am off shopping shortly as a just in case, credit card in hand (bloody hate credit cards).

FAB, Niecie is right and also, you'll just hear different things as you concentrate in and out. At least I do! Grin

Welcome new people! :) you'll be glad you came!

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Kewjumping · 04/08/2011 12:57

Hello

Can I join in too please? I'm a veteran of the quick fix diet which, of course, never works long term and I really want to change my eating habits for the long long term. I've been encouraged by all the success stories that I have read on this and previous threads as to the Paul Mckenna book and cd.

Might as well put the brutal facts here: I'm 5ft 1 - teetering on 10 stone Blush and very definitely an hour glass figure. I like my curves and don't want to get rid of them but those curves just need to be more streamlined. I tend to put weight evenly all over so the weight gain can be quite unnoticeable until all of a sudden I am bursting out of my clothes. I have a gorgoues wardrobe of lovely size 8/10 clothes which, for the most part I only bought last year when I was in the throes of one of my slim phases. I am very much a comfort/ boredom eater.

I have recently managed to drastically reduce my alcohol intake through reading the Allan Carr book. There is a history of alcoholism in my family and I didn't want my evening pick me up glass (or two!) of wine to become something more so decided to nip it in the bud now. Nowadays, a glass of wine in the evening is not the first thing I think of as soon as DS (3) is in bed. I sleep so much better for it and wake up feeling far more refereshed. I know that I can reprogramme my mind to change my eating habits as I have just done it with alcohol. More or less giving up the vino will help with my weight but it was for the overall health and psychological benefits that I have done it.

I exercise regularly - usually about 2 hours in the gym each weekend. I try to do the classes as I work harder. I have the 30 day shred at home and have just ordered Tracey Anderson so hoping to alternate between those of an evening at home a couple of times during the week. I'm waiting for McKenna's book and CD to come through but have started to try and at least follow the four main rules since yesterday. Going to gym midweek is difficult between looking after DS and working full time.

So, I would love to try and lose two stone by Christmas if at all possible. This is probably overambitious but I want to get on the right track now but do things properly this time and not not just a quick fix.

It's been a pretty turbulent couple of years or so with birth of DS, PND, redundancy and separation from DH for over 18 months. Life is now slowly but surely getting back on track - hopefully well settled into new job, PND tackled and reconcilation with DH. So overall, the future is starting to look positive and I just need to make sure I make the right choices healthwise and for my self-esteem!

Any support/ encouragement/ proverbial kicks up my (rather large so not difficult to miss!) backside would be gratefully received along with tips as to how I can make the programme really work. I am more than happy to give as much advice/ support and encouragement as anyone else on this thread needs too!

Sorry this is such an epic post but wanted to put the facts down so as much as anything I couldn't avoid them anymore Grin if nothing else!

KJ, x

ppeatfruit · 04/08/2011 15:02

KewjumpingYou are very welcome thanks for the 'epic' it sounds like you'll be a great member our club.Smile

Ali how are the exercises going? HAPPY BIRTHDAY Niecie yeah i agree with with solo 45 is nothing, try being 60 Grin

Niecie · 04/08/2011 15:39

Welcome Kewjumping. Smile

Thank you for the happy birthdays.

45 = half way through my 40's and worse yet, half way to 90. I have never been halfway to anything beginning with a '9' before. I should (if genes have anything to do with it) make my 80's but 90's, who knows!?

But really I don't mind getting older even if it makes it more difficult to lose weight. After all the alternative is not great. Smile

Had a nice lunch though, had no room for pudding so didn't have one, despite everybody else having some. You would have been proud of me! I probably will have cake later though. Seems rude not to. Wink

Also got chocolate for my birthday but will probably take it on holiday next week.

Solo · 04/08/2011 16:58

Welcome Kew, you do sound like you'll fit in with 'us' nicely :) you sound like one of us already with kicking up the backside etc! haha! It's good to write it all down and admit your flaws...I think we've all done that on here.

Pp? 60? really???

Niecie well done you.

Just off out again shopping I bloody hate shopping...will tell all later on as regards dress.

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MuffinsMummy · 04/08/2011 20:15

Hi all

welcome kewjumping very nice to meet you :)

Happy birthday Niecie hope you have had a fab day and were spoilt rotten Grin

I have had a really stressful day at work and with finances but didn't feel like shovelling lots of junk into my mouth so feel very positive. At the moment I am just happy not to put weight on!

Right better get the DC to bed! See you all tomorrow Grin

Solo I hope you manage to wear the dress you want on Saturday and that you have a wonderful time whilst doing it!

ppeatfruit · 05/08/2011 10:03

Morning all Smile Yeah solo really!! that's the reason I look after my health i don't want to get decrepit and i'm not!!I hate shopping as well esp. for clothes i don't know about you but IMO trying on stuff is SOOO boring esp. when you HAVE to!! (and when the DCs are little it's impossible with them!!)

We may be going to a party in N.Y. at the end of Sept and i've GOT to get something to wear!! I've had some linen waiting for 5 years Blush to to be made up and there's a good dressmaker\repair lady in our local town who's cheap!!! Shall I have a dress and jacket or trouser suit made? (i live in trousers) Is it very hot there or does the A.C. make it cold inside? See? nothing is straightforward is it? apologies for the rant!

muffins it's good to hear your positivity!

ppeatfruit · 05/08/2011 10:39

Ali i stupidly asked how yr. exercises were going on this page 'cos i hadn't read the last one Blush it sounds like you are really doing well!!!

Solo · 05/08/2011 11:14

Wow! pp you sound young!!! :) and good on you for looking after yourself too!
As far as the linen is concerned, if you wont get sore thighs from rubbing/chafing, I would go for dress and jacket, but if you think they might, then maybe trousers and a tunic. Sounds lovely whichever you choose though.

Yesterday, I went to TK Maxx first. I picked up the only two dresses they had over size 8; they had TKM tickets that said size 18. Tried the first and it went nowhere near me (couldn't pull it down past my hips Blush), so I tried to take it off...! Oh Lord, it was stuck and I only had 4yo Dd with me. I had to pull it back 'on' and then try again which thankfully worked. Bear in mind that yesterday was really hot and I'm having sweats with my menopause, so I was hot anyway. Anyhow, when when I looked at the manufacturer's swing ticket, it said size 14 Angry.
So I checked the actual dress label of the second dress and it was an 8, not an 18...
Went to Monsoon and ended up buying two dresses in the sale which were both 18's and both too big, but thought I might be able to do something with them to make them fit better and bring/take the other back.
Went shopping last night with my friend who's going with me tomorrow and I actually found a dress that fits well so the others are going back to Monsoon. It was too much money though :( but I got 30% off as it was on offer. It's comfortable and flattering and I don't need to be so strict with detoxing!! Bonus!!! but next week I'm listening to Paul again and doing it for real again. Got to.

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Alibabaandthe80nappies · 05/08/2011 12:14

Solo that is good news! I have been anxious for you Grin

Happy Birthday for yesterday Niecie!

I am reading a book at the moment called Potatoes not Prozac. I recommend those of you who struggle with knackeredness, sugar cravings, depression-type symptoms etc to give it a go. It is NOT a diet and I think it can fit well with Pauling. It is all about balancing body chemistry and blood sugar.

PositiveAttitude · 05/08/2011 14:09

Hi everyone, and welcome to Kew.

I am glad you have a nice dress to wear without the detox torture Solo.

We arrived back from holiday late last night. Feeling incredibly jaded today, so forgive the short post!
Well, I managed to stick to one of the rules very easily!! I ate what I wanted!! Grin Unfortunately I did not wait until I was hungry, I did not eat consciously and I certainly did not stop when I was satisfied. Blush
Stood on the scales this morning to see the damage and up 2lb. I am not surprised and not too disappointed as I feel confident I can now hop straight back on and get rid of it again ASAP.
I have found it fairly hard today as I feel that the habit has been broken and I need to re-train my stomach again. I am also feeling waaaaaaayy too tired to think too much about it today.

Will try to do better over the coming days. DD1 (20) wants to do it with me, too now, so another convert! Wink (although she seems to have as many lbs to lose as I have stones to lose!)

Alibabaandthe80nappies · 05/08/2011 17:35

Welcome back PA! I bet that you still ate less than you would have done before you started Pauling. 2lb gain for a holiday is very good.

Solo · 05/08/2011 21:40

PA :) Glad you are back...

I'm just wasting 5 minutes before my alarm goes off for me to rince out the hair dye :( grey is soooooo dull. I do hate the messing about of dying it though.

Got to pack yet. I'm so disorganised Blush

I will report back either Sundau night or on Monday

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Solo · 05/08/2011 21:40

Sundau sounds sooo exotic!

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Niecie · 06/08/2011 01:22

Sundau = small island in the Far East I reckon.

Have a great weekend, Solo. Smile

I'm off on holiday for a week tomorrow. Nothing exotic - Devon but I like Devon so when I eventually get the sodding packing done, it might even look forward to it (I loathe packing). I may be back during the week, I may not. We have wifi apparently but can't decide whether to take a laptop or not. I might actually read a book or two instead of a page or two if we don't. I might even finish reading PMK!!!!

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