A bit of a ramble from me.
I know from the previous threads there were some people on here that were doing this 'with' someone (whether partner, friend, sibling, whoever). Anyone who has an MJ buddy, how are you finding it?
I started three weeks before DH, told him at the end of week two and he was 100% supportive and also 100% keen to try himself (at this point I'd already lost a stone nearly). That was the desired outcome as he has much more to lose than I do! So we're both on MJ, me 2.5 weeks ahead of him.
However... I am finding some things difficult to navigate. I've responded really well to MJ, really good suppression and loss and have had minimal negative side effects, whereas he's clearly lost weight (though refuses to weigh himself...) and definitely has some suppression, but not to the same degree as me and has also had really quite bad vomiting, diarrhoea and other side effects.
I mostly feel terrible that he's seeing me doing so well and he isn't getting quite the same effect... But he's also (IMO) not really 'working with' the MJ in the way I have been. E.g. I have been eating really clean, cut out alcohol, exercising, keeping hydrated, supplements etc. He almost seems to want to 'override' the MJ - like he'll get snacks from the shop when we're having an evening in, or he'll drink loads of pints cos it's the weekend, or order extra sides if eating out etc. And I really, really want this to work for both of us but I feel like he's self sabotaging or doom mongering about himself and is fixating a bit on how he's clearly a 'non-responder' and should just give up as he'll never do as well as me! Aargh! I want to shake him and get him to understand that everyone's journey is different, he IS responding and if he actually ate well and exercised he'd do ten times better! Then I feel guilty because it's all been pretty easy for me tbh and also I don't want to come across as nagging or monitoring him...
Sorry, not really looking for an answer, just wanted to offload a bit (and maybe get some solidarity/others' experiences?)! Hope everyone has a brilliant week ahead 🙂