@spicypomegranate2111
Just replying to your post at the end of thread two.
So interesting about different brains. I am pretty sure I have ADHD - one of my DC does as when I filled in all the forms, I could have ticked most of them for me. I may pursue a diagnosis, not sure. But in the meantime, I have done so much to support myself and a lot of it is like you say, lifestyle scaffolding that makes the rest of it much easier. I got a lot of it from NOBS programme as it really helps you set up your mind and body with helpful thinking prompts and actions. I love doing it all and when I'm consistent, life is much much easier. And my food / drink intake and exercise mirror that. My issue at the moment is things like trips, holidays, school holidays, work stress or Christmas all derail me and I don't do any of my scaffolding and go "off-piste". Then have trouble getting back to it - especially with exercise. Of course, these things come along quite frequently, so it totally sabotages my weight loss.
W1 of MJ has been a revelation in how much I talk to myself about food and how nasty I am to myself about what that means (I'm fat, I'm stuck, I can't change, this will never work, you know you're going to go backwards etc). Turning off that voice and telling her that I don't talk to myself like that anymore has been much, much easier. I've had a few urges to eat, but sat with them and did the CBT stuff from NOBS. I want to learn how to handle it, so I can get better and better at deciding what I want to do with my thinking brain. This is probably making no sense, so I'll stop rambling!
Have a great weekend everyone 😀