I have my sister coming to stay this week. Her dd has an eating disorder so dsis is hypervigilant about 'diets' 'faddy eating' etc. I'm going to have a challenge. At the moment I am not eating breakfast but somehow I'm going to have to 'not eat breakfast' while she isn't looking - maybe while she's in the shower?
If I have breakfast I won't manage lunch, which I think will be more obvious. Tuesday we're going out for lunch and dinner will be very light, and Wednesday evening is a wider family meal and I'm making fajitas so easy to pick and choose my own fillings and amounts (and lots of chatty children distraction).
It's the meals/days when we are on our own that will need more careful navigation. If I'm leaving lots of food and putting it in the bin, or serving tiny portions it will set off all her anxiety triggers from being the parent of a dc with anorexia/bulimia. In a family of mostly very slender people, dsis would rather see me overweight than dieting.
And next weekend is going to be another challenge with dh's family!