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Last-minute bridesmaid dress needed after seamstress disaster, is this suitable?

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Springged · 23/03/2026 16:27

Help! The wedding is next week and my bridesmaid dress was a disaster. Now urgently trying to find something to wear.

it’s my sister’s wedding and she decided to have the dresses made by a seamstress but mine wasn’t fitted to me (too far away). It was also very late so I received it last week and it doesn’t fit. I knew I would have to get it altered but my seamstress took a look and said there was no chance without completely remaking it from scratch and there wasn’t time or fabric for that.

The bride accepted that but tasked me with finding an alternative and I have a week! Bride said she doesn’t want to help out so I’m on my own.

I’ve ordered some from coast but I’ve tried a few from there and they don’t tend to fit me too well.

I’ve ordered this dress. Is it too young for a 41 year old woman (I was told I look about 30…).
https://www.laceandbeads.co.uk/products/madison-navy-blue-tulle-bridesmaid-midi-dress?_pos=4&_sid=ae5c19342&_ss=r

The idea was he dresses would be unique but no time for that now! Do you think someone might turn up wearing the same??

I have sparkly silver heels to go with it.

Madison Navy Blue Tulle Bridesmaid Midi Dress

Lace & Beads Madison Navy Blue Tulle Bridesmaid Midi Dress. The Madison dress in navy blue is all about effortless elegance. Made from soft layered tulle, it features a flattering deep V neckline, a fitted waist and a tiered midi skirt that moves b...

https://www.laceandbeads.co.uk/products/madison-navy-blue-tulle-bridesmaid-midi-dress?_pos=4&_sid=ae5c19342&_ss=r

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ClearlyNoIdea · 24/03/2026 13:03

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 23/03/2026 19:06

Too booby.

Yeah....it was the wrong link I shared.

Maddy70 · 24/03/2026 13:33

I think that looks too informal for a bridesmaid dress. Try monsoon perhaps

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/03/2026 15:59

ClearlyNoIdea · 23/03/2026 18:59

What about something like this?

https://www.next.ie/en/style/SU655882/F62229

Edited

Yes, love this and very suitable for a bridesmaid/ low risk someone will have something similar

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/03/2026 16:01

Option 2 is best

Springged · 24/03/2026 16:28

Thanks everyone!

i know a lot of people voted for Option 2 ( the one shoulder dress) but it arrived today and was very cheap looking. Thin, plasticky satin that creased easily.

this one was much better quality. Substantial satin, well made, not my dream dress but a fall back option. the chest size was odd (despite checking the sizing) so I’d have to see if the size up fit.

https://www.debenhams.com/product/coast-strappy-drape-bodice-maxi-bridesmaid-dress_bcc12176?colour=navy

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MintyFresh23 · 24/03/2026 18:13

I think that's a beautiful dress, fabric looks lucious. Nothing naff about the straps, means it'll fit well, and no one will notice!

GlasgowGal2014 · 24/03/2026 19:18

What about this one OP? I think it would be good because it's a similar fabric to the original dress, and the sleeves and neckline are similar too, but it's got a chiffon layer with a higher neckline that makes it a bit different and possibly a bit more MOH:

www.next.co.uk/style/su614586/f22754

Mumdiva99 · 25/03/2026 06:28

The first dress was gorgeous with silver shoes and accessories. So what if someone else is wearing it. Bu the time you work that out you will have done the important bits. You'll probably have flowers to hold. They will set you apart from a guest. And you can wear it again.

Buttercream101 · 25/03/2026 06:41

Springged · 24/03/2026 16:28

Thanks everyone!

i know a lot of people voted for Option 2 ( the one shoulder dress) but it arrived today and was very cheap looking. Thin, plasticky satin that creased easily.

this one was much better quality. Substantial satin, well made, not my dream dress but a fall back option. the chest size was odd (despite checking the sizing) so I’d have to see if the size up fit.

https://www.debenhams.com/product/coast-strappy-drape-bodice-maxi-bridesmaid-dress_bcc12176?colour=navy

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I love that dress OP! Gorgeous.

RB05 · 25/03/2026 08:45

Six stories are lovely dresses with quick return and delivery.

Springged · 25/03/2026 08:59

Thanks everyone!!I have two more dresses arriving today (including the original dress I linked). So I’ll update when they arrive. DP is helping with daily trips to the post office with the returns!

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RedApplePie · 25/03/2026 10:44

My daughter ended up in a very similar predicament just before Xmas and bought this. Wasn’t entirely to her taste as she’s only 20 but she looked very elegant in it and it did the job. Available in both midi and maxi. https://www.freemans.com/products/monsoon-monica-lace-maxi-dress/_/A-30G357_22?utm_medium=pla&utm_source=google&utm_campaign=DEP%3AWOM_CAT%3ADRE_THE%3AGen_CHA%3APmx_CFO%3AMx%2BF_ADV%3AFreemans_PLA%3ASA360_INV%3AGoog_OBJ%3AConv&ns_mchannel=pla&ns_source=google&ns_campaign=DEP%3AWOM_CAT%3ADRE_THE%3AGen_CHA%3APmx_CFO%3AMx%2BF_ADV%3AFreemans_PLA%3ASA360_INV%3AGoog_OBJ%3AConv&ns_linkname=20281768709&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=20281769669&gbraid=0AAAAADplBR_P1MBqfTU0kuxy1kiVm1UMA&gclid=Cj0KCQjwj47OBhCmARIsAF5wUEE3_50KinZbxpuIsScUFMYwYTxZ5b6c2jtuJ56cwvlnUIn8caC2EAIaAg0VEALw_wcB

Monsoon Monica Lace Maxi Dress | Freemans

The things you can do with a little bit of lace. The dress that floats down the aisle - and into the reception, find intricate, floral lace that spills over the decolletage and flutter sleeves. We’ve lined the dress from the sweetheart neckline down, w...

https://www.freemans.com/products/monsoon-monica-lace-maxi-dress/_/A-30G357_22?gad_campaignid=20281769669&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADplBR_P1MBqfTU0kuxy1kiVm1UMA&gclid=Cj0KCQjwj47OBhCmARIsAF5wUEE3_50KinZbxpuIsScUFMYwYTxZ5b6c2jtuJ56cwvlnUIn8caC2EAIaAg0VEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds&ns_campaign=DEP%3AWOM_CAT%3ADRE_THE%3AGen_CHA%3APmx_CFO%3AMx%2BF_ADV%3AFreemans_PLA%3ASA360_INV%3AGoog_OBJ%3AConv&ns_linkname=20281768709&ns_mchannel=pla&ns_source=google

RedApplePie · 25/03/2026 10:45

Geez, sorry about that link!

mullers1977 · 25/03/2026 11:20

what size are you? happy with thin sleeves??

CoCoJones26 · 25/03/2026 15:55

I think the very first one you posted is great! Also the JL with the flutter sleeves. Good luck!

GoldDuster · 25/03/2026 16:02

Loved this, but just read that it turned up and was shit, hopefully you'll find a good un.

Springged · 25/03/2026 16:24

So, for anyone looking for bridesmaids dresses, this one is lovely:

https://prettylavish.co.uk/products/esmee-crepe-maxi-bridesmaid-dress-navy

It needs to be taken up but very elegant and holds in you in the right places. I’m really impressed with the quality of it.

I was very close to choosing it but the first one I linked turned up too.

Not as elegant as the one above but very pretty, and shows off my shoes well. It also matches the other bridesmaids more so maybe more appropriate which is making me sway towards that instead. The plunging neckline is VERY plunging but if we go with that I plan to sew it up to an acceptable plunge.

I was also thinking to ask the local seamstress if she could put a v neckline in the back quickly which matches the other bridesmaids.

Just waiting to hear from the bride and the other bridesmaid to see if her dress was also a disaster and we need to match!

Esmee Crepe Maxi Bridesmaid Dress - Navy

Product Details Premium Stretch Crepe Fabric Stretch for Comfort and Body Skimming Silhouette Lined Bodice Classic V-neckline Conceals a Bra Zip and Hook Fastening is concealed at the side Skirt Split positioned at the back Maxi Length True to size Com...

https://prettylavish.co.uk/products/esmee-crepe-maxi-bridesmaid-dress-navy

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121gigawatts · 25/03/2026 16:38

Springged · 23/03/2026 16:27

Help! The wedding is next week and my bridesmaid dress was a disaster. Now urgently trying to find something to wear.

it’s my sister’s wedding and she decided to have the dresses made by a seamstress but mine wasn’t fitted to me (too far away). It was also very late so I received it last week and it doesn’t fit. I knew I would have to get it altered but my seamstress took a look and said there was no chance without completely remaking it from scratch and there wasn’t time or fabric for that.

The bride accepted that but tasked me with finding an alternative and I have a week! Bride said she doesn’t want to help out so I’m on my own.

I’ve ordered some from coast but I’ve tried a few from there and they don’t tend to fit me too well.

I’ve ordered this dress. Is it too young for a 41 year old woman (I was told I look about 30…).
https://www.laceandbeads.co.uk/products/madison-navy-blue-tulle-bridesmaid-midi-dress?_pos=4&_sid=ae5c19342&_ss=r

The idea was he dresses would be unique but no time for that now! Do you think someone might turn up wearing the same??

I have sparkly silver heels to go with it.

This happened with my sister's dress who was my MOH. We ended up using the top half of her dress (having it made into a top) and buying a skirt which off the top of my head was from Coast. It looked gorgeous in the end and still matched all the colour scheme as we could use top half of dress. Hope you manage to get something sorted☺️

MissBattleaxe · 26/03/2026 03:00

Springged · 23/03/2026 18:26

My other worry is someone will turn up with the same dress.
I once went to a wedding as a guest and unbeknown to me, my dress perfectly matched the colour of the bridesmaids- I was mortified. Didn’t even know the couple that well!

That happened to me but I wasn't mortified. The bride loved it.

As to the navy dress, it's nice but too low cut. If you can't sew, add a sparkly brooch or flower to bring it together.

CookingFatCat · 26/03/2026 13:17

Just spotted this on Amazon!

Last-minute bridesmaid dress needed after seamstress disaster, is this suitable?
Elchupacabra · 26/03/2026 13:41

Ophy83 · 23/03/2026 19:59

This one looks pretty similar to the burgundy one you posted above. Comes in navy:

https://www.ever-pretty.co.uk/products/long-empire-waist-evening-dress-with-short-flutter-sleeves-ep09890-2

This is beautiful!!!

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