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Secret wedding..how to find witnesses?? HELP!

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TiaJade12 · 11/02/2019 20:02

Hello!

So me and my partner are booked in to the local Town Hall to be married on March 25th Grin for a secret wedding! The only problem is we need to find two witnesses. We don't have any family members or friends who could witness us so we're hoping to find two random people to help us out.

Has anyone had to find witnesses for their secret wedding before? If so how did you go about it?

TIA! Smile x

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frippit · 11/02/2019 20:31

I worked as an assistant registrar at our Registry Office. It was in the Town Hall and our 2 security guys were witnesses quite frequently.

TiaJade12 · 11/02/2019 20:31

@Talcott2007 aww that's so lovely! If we can't confirm any witnesses beforehand I think we'll do the same! I'm sure there's many people out there who'd be happy to help Smile

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rainbowgrimm · 11/02/2019 20:33

Mondays happen to be my day off Smile

TiaJade12 · 11/02/2019 20:40

@rainbowgrimm aww perfect! We'll if you're happy with the early morning on your day off I'll send you my contact details Grin Now to find something to wear for a future 5 month pregnant to be bride haha!

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rainbowgrimm · 11/02/2019 20:42

I'd be absolutely delighted @tiajade12

HappyMama01 · 11/02/2019 20:43

Have a lovely day OP! I was 8 months pregnant when I got married. Finding the dress was impossible!! Wish you the best! Thanks

8FencingWire · 11/02/2019 20:44

I love a MN witness thread:) I keep hoping someone near me would need a witness Grin
How fun! Flowers

Highfever · 11/02/2019 20:45

Love these threads!

TiaJade12 · 11/02/2019 20:48

@rainbowgrimm great that's one witness sorted then Smile Thank you so so much!

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KennDodd · 11/02/2019 20:48

Good news op! I'd love to do this. Do you think I could set myself up as a professional witness? I could advertise on the internet or leave cards at registry offices?

FannyFifer · 11/02/2019 20:50

Awww this is so sweet. Congrats on upcoming wedding. ❤️

Lilmisskittykat · 11/02/2019 20:50

Aw this is the best thread of the day .... how lovely x

I hope you have a lovely wedding day

rainbowgrimm · 11/02/2019 20:50

Can we please now have a style & beauty thread to find the dress??

TiaJade12 · 11/02/2019 20:50

@HappyMama01 thank you! Ah it's going to be a nightmare trying to find a dress! No idea how big or small I'll be by then lol Hmm

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TiaJade12 · 11/02/2019 20:52

Aw thanks guys! You've all been so lovely Grin pregnancy hormones have got me all emotional this evening haha

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TiaJade12 · 11/02/2019 20:53

@rainbowgrimm haha that sounds good! I have no idea what I'm even looking for tbh..could do with some guidance!

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StellaMorris · 11/02/2019 20:54

I live near Leeds and I don’t usually work on Mondays! I’ll do it!

NoodieRoodie · 11/02/2019 20:54

If you're not already sorted you can count me in, it's the kind of thing I dream of!

Bluelonerose · 11/02/2019 20:58

Ohh op that's lovely I wish I was nearer i would love to help

TiaJade12 · 11/02/2019 21:00

@KennDodd I definitely think you could! I actually googled "how to hire witnesses for secret weddings" at first haha. Seems it's more common than I expected so I'm sure you'd definitely be able to help a lot of people out as a witness if you did advertise

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TiaJade12 · 11/02/2019 21:02

@StellaMorris aw amazing! It would be a massive help if you could Grin It's at 10.30am on Monday March 25th at Leeds Town Hall. Would that be ok for you?

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KennDodd · 11/02/2019 21:04

Yes, I think I might try. Would you pay for a witness OP? If so, how much? Just trying to work out my business plan Grin

WhoKnewBeefStew · 11/02/2019 21:05

We did this. We spoke to the registrar beforehand and were told there were always people in the office we could use. So we turned up on the day, and they sorted 2 witnesses for us. Job done Grin

And congratulations Flowers

Lungelady · 11/02/2019 21:14

Oh bugger..I thought it wss 25th May! I can't do your wedding! So sorry xxxx

EggysMom · 11/02/2019 21:22

Yayyyy, good to see Mumsnet coming to the rescue!

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