I sort of want to cancel my wedding :(

[BirthdayKake]

Well, not cancel cancel. Just change it completely. I'm excited to be married to DP, but I'm dreading the wedding day.

There's only about 30 people coming, but I hate being the centre of attention and I just don't want to do it. Especially in a big (ish) dress in the August heat. It's also my second wedding so it feels a bit silly.

Just talked to DP about it and he was very quiet so I know he's gutted I feel this way. He also wouldn't want to lose money on things we've already put deposits down on (not much tbf; still hundreds more to pay)

:(

Agree about the dress. We completely changed our plans and the venue were really supportive and understanding and we now have something fairly informal that I'm looking forward to. Also in August so hope we both end up with a day that suits us

Sorry I disappeared!

Ok so instead of getting married in the register office an hour away, we have now applied to be married at our local church, in the beautiful village we moved to at Christmas. Then we'll probably have the after do at ours. I'm so much more excited!

Only thing is that I've been divorced... Really hoping that the vicar will understand and still agree to marry us. I'm SO nervous! We're dropping off the forms to him today and then he'll contact us to arrange a meeting.

Sounds lovely! Hope it all works out with the church and you have a wonderful wedding