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Baby making a mess with food in cafes - is it ok?

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Squirrel81 · 23/11/2025 11:42

DC is 11 months old and majority of time when I am weaning he wants to feed himself via BLW.

When DH and I go out at weekends we have 3 hour window including travel time as DC does not sleep out or in the car - only at home.

As such, giving him lunch before we leave doesn’t give us enough time so we tend to go and get a coffee and feed him there.

Problem is, due to BLW he makes a lot of mess on the floor. I tend to give him something like pasta and some pieces of fruit/tomato along side it (but obviously varies).

First few times I would get on my hands and knees and clean up the floor after he ate but cafe floors are pretty dismal and a couple of times I’ve been told by the waiter don’t worry they will clean it up but only in very select cafes.

Question is, is it socially acceptable to leave cafe having made a mess feeding baby? I don’t want to be rude or inconsiderate. Thoughts & tips?

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Punkerplus · 26/11/2025 08:23

SarahAndQuack · 23/11/2025 16:41

How hard can cafe food be? Plain jacket potato? Toast? Usually there's cake of some form and usually something like a scone that's not too sweet; usually sandwiches?

It's very different if you have a child with allergies. But I'm really conscious at the moment that hospitality businesses are having a really hard time. I won't worry about it if I'd had a meal there myself, but the OP is going for a coffee, which feels a bit unfair.

I agree. Aren't most kids menus designed towards the beige end anyway to cater for picky eaters. Since my eldest was 1, we've always ordered off the kids menu. Yes he didn't it all then but it's important as you say to support local business!

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