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Airport security discarded ALL my frozen expressed milk before our flight

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Nadsthakur · 12/07/2026 01:40

During security screening, approximately 25 ounces of my frozen expressed breast milk was confiscated and discarded. I was told that because it was frozen, it could not be tested and therefore could not be taken through security.

I explained several times that this milk was for my 8-month-old daughter, who is unable to latch and is exclusively fed expressed breast milk. This was not simply a drink or an inconvenience, it was my daughter's only prepared source of nutrition for our journey. Despite explaining this, I was told there was nothing that could be done, and I had to stand there and watch as the milk was thrown away.

I cannot put into words how upsetting this was. Expressing 25 ounces of breast milk takes an enormous amount of time, dedication and physical effort. It means pumping throughout the day and night, carefully storing every bottle and planning ahead. Every ounce represents hours of work. To have it thrown away in front of me, after explaining exactly how important it was, was absolutely heartbreaking.

What made the situation even worse was the attitude of the officers involved. Throughout the interaction, I felt they showed very little empathy or understanding of how serious this was. I was clearly distressed and repeatedly explained that they were taking away my baby's only food for our journey. Rather than trying to help, showing compassion or explaining whether there were any alternative screening options, my concerns were simply dismissed.

After my daughter's food had been thrown away, I was handed a customer feedback card and sent on my way. It genuinely felt as though nobody cared that an 8-month-old baby had just lost the only food I had prepared for her. The complete lack of compassion shown towards me as a mother was deeply upsetting and made an already distressing situation even worse.

Instead of looking forward to our holiday, I boarded an international flight feeling anxious and devastated, worrying about how I was going to feed my daughter while we were away. No parent should ever be put in that position.

Before travelling, I checked the guidance available to passengers. Ryanair's website clearly states that parents travelling with an infant can bring as much baby milk as needed for the flight, provided it is presented for inspection. I relied on this information when preparing for our journey. At no point was I made aware that frozen expressed breast milk could be refused because it could not be tested, and I was given no alternative option when I reached security.

I do not know the names of the officers involved, but im sure they can be identified through CCTV footage and staff rosters for the security checkpoint.
I want Manchester Airport to provide a full explanation of why my daughter's expressed breast milk was confiscated.
The specific policy or security procedure that required it to be discarded.
An explanation of why no alternative screening method. The time and physical effort it took to express and store it, and the significant distress, anxiety and disruption this caused to both me and my family.im supposed to enjoy my holiday and now im stressed in morroco about how I will feed her. She doesnt latch and only has expressed milk. Besides complaining to the Airport what else can I do so no other family goes through this.

Airport security discarded ALL my frozen expressed milk before our flight
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Buttonspoons · 12/07/2026 08:30

Katrinawaves · 12/07/2026 08:21

to use the two bottles of refrigerated milk first, buy some sterile bottles or sterilised airside and express on the flight in case she ran out of refrigerated milk before she landed would have been my workaround in these circumstances

Ok, great. So the baby would have been fed. While distressing, I agree, to see the frozen milk discarded your plan means no problems for the baby. That's a relief.

Zanatdy · 12/07/2026 08:30

Try her on the breast. DS2 couldn’t latch at first so I expressed. One evening DP brought him into the room where I was expressing (he was 1 month) and said just try him, and he latched on and I then fed him via breast until 8 months.

I guess rules are rules, and they cannot compromise those rules.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 12/07/2026 08:31

Snorlaxo · 12/07/2026 07:48

It’s good that Manchester Airport are following the government rules and that terrorists wouldn’t be able to use frozen baby milk as a way to conceal something harmful.

I’m sorry that you didn’t know the rules and weren’t offered the chance to at least defrost one batch in hot water for security.

Hopefully baby will be fully weaned next time you travel.

  1. How will she defrost one batch without delaying the plane?
  2. A security inspector then has to be taken off checking all the other passengers to witness this process. Do you think they have so many spare staff that they can do this for every chancer who turns up with frozen milk?
  3. How do security know that the other, untested batches aren't nitroglycerin, hydrochloric acid, or concealing a knife or firearm?

Next time, just put any frozen breast milk into the hold luggage.

pambeesleyhalpert · 12/07/2026 08:31

Teenagerantruns · 12/07/2026 01:49

25oz, so about 3 or 4 bottles, what were you planning on feeding her the rest of the time?
Just get some formual?

Why should she give her breast fed baby formula! Not everyone is comfortable formula feeding and that’s absolutely fine! They shouldn’t have thrown the milk away

Shitshowpolitics · 12/07/2026 08:31

Jollyhockeystickss · 12/07/2026 08:17

Why would you want to go to Morroco with 4 kids!

What's wrong with taking 4 kids to Morocco?
What a stupid question.

winterwarmer8274 · 12/07/2026 08:33

Rules are rules OP - everyone and their dog would be coming up with excuses as to why they needed xyz that isn't allowed otherwise and security would be chaos.

And as for the officers being unkind - common training for these types of jobs is to remain calm and not engage in arguing back and forth. They will simply repeat the rules and explain what is happening and why.

If they started showing sympathy and being kind - you likely would have taken this is an oppotunity to get them to change their mind, which would cause more of a hold up for everyone else.

This may make them seem cold, but this is how they avoid conflicts escalating.

Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 08:34

pambeesleyhalpert · 12/07/2026 08:31

Why should she give her breast fed baby formula! Not everyone is comfortable formula feeding and that’s absolutely fine! They shouldn’t have thrown the milk away

What should they have done with it then? They couldn’t give it back as OP was boarding a plane!

hellobaby24 · 12/07/2026 08:35

This sounds very upsetting OP and I’m sorry you went through this.

However I’m sorry to say it does seem like you didn’t research it clearly enough. The websites are quite clear that you cannot take frozen milk in hand luggage.

If Manchester provide you with a ‘full explanation’ it will simply be that they are the published rules which the officers followed

Jollyhockeystickss · 12/07/2026 08:36

Shitshowpolitics · 12/07/2026 08:31

What's wrong with taking 4 kids to Morocco?
What a stupid question.

Youve obviously never been there

ThatCyanCat · 12/07/2026 08:36

pambeesleyhalpert · 12/07/2026 08:31

Why should she give her breast fed baby formula! Not everyone is comfortable formula feeding and that’s absolutely fine! They shouldn’t have thrown the milk away

What were they supposed to do with it if it couldn't go further and she wasn't prepared to take it home and miss the flight?

Bogofftosomewherehot · 12/07/2026 08:38

sittingonabeach · 12/07/2026 01:51

I was going to ask whether you could buy formula in the airport? Have you not started weaning at all or is there a medical reason you have delayed it?

She is NOT delaying it with a baby of only 8 months old. What a stupid, ill informed comment.

dottiehens · 12/07/2026 08:39

Omg you poor thing! However, if it poses a security risk I would never support or take this rule away.

WonderfulSmith · 12/07/2026 08:39

Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/07/2026 05:20

She explained why she thought that.
Again, why wasn't an alternative offered?

Because that isn’t their problem. They have to follow the rules. They aren’t there just to be petty, it is hugely important.

Gloriia · 12/07/2026 08:42

Sorry you were upset op but it goes as a reminder that we all have to be up on the rules when flying.

Restlessdreams1994 · 12/07/2026 08:44

The milk carried in your hand luggage is meant to be for the flight (not the subsequent holiday) so wouldn’t be frozen as it would not have time to defrost on board. Ryanair don’t fly long haul so presumably thought that was obvious.

ThisISmycircusandtheseAREmymonkeys · 12/07/2026 08:45

ChocolateLemons · 12/07/2026 08:07

OP I'm so sorry. This is not right. I'm completely with you. This is about making sure your daughter has food. The irony in a country where mums are pressured through the roof to exclusively give breast milk. How are you supposed to win. I'm so impressed with your dedication to pumping etc you must be exhausted. Really hope you are getting some rest and have some opportunity to de-stress while you are away. Really sorry you've had to go through this. X

It IS right.

Since when would we want staff to make exceptions to the security rules.

Stay at home if you don’t want to follow them.

WonderfulSmith · 12/07/2026 08:46

Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/07/2026 07:45

I think the point some are missing in their eagerness to pile on is that OP operated on the following basis:

"Before travelling, I checked the guidance available to passengers. Ryanair's website clearly states that parents travelling with an infant can bring as much baby milk as needed for the flight, provided it is presented for inspection. I relied on this information when preparing for our journey. At no point was I made aware that frozen expressed breast milk could be refused because it could not be tested"

That seems reasonable. If OP had different info that she chose to ignore then it's fair to blame her for not being prepared with an alternative.

But what goes through security has nothing to do with Ryanair. What Ryanair allow on a flight is one thing, what can go through airport security is another.

Lentilcakes · 12/07/2026 08:48

iim sorry you had this experience, but think the onus is always on the passenger to check rules and regs for something like this, even calling the airline.

it’s a bit like people who think they can take oversized hand luggage - I’ve seen Ryanair patrol queues and people either having to pay excess or chuck the suitcase away and stuff their belongings in a duty free bag.

Not sure why you didn’t bring bottles non-frozen - give one at the airport and one in the flight?

rwalker · 12/07/2026 08:49

JustReallyTiredOfThis · 12/07/2026 08:00

I'm so sorry for the loss of your milk and the time and effort it took you to make it.

Unfortunately airport security staff can be absolute jobsworths. How it's different to testing a laptop (also a solid object) I don't know.

It seems a daft rule to restrict frozen breast milk, especially given you could very easily have been allowed to defrost one for them to test. Heck even just the time taken to discuss this with them would have been enough for it to defrost enough to test.

I wonder if this is something the breastfeeding network or la leche league could challenge at a bigger and higher level?

Hope you were still able to enjoy your trip 😊

It’s nothing about being a jobsworth ridiculous to think they could bend the rules

thereisnomeaning · 12/07/2026 08:49

I'm sorry OP, I can understand how devastating that must have been for you. That's a lot of effort down the drain.

As a fellow traveller though, I have to admit I am glad to know they were strict about it and did follow the rules. It's an important safety measure for a reason. While I sympathise with your feelings, they did do the right thing.

PlayingDevilsAdvocateisinteresting · 12/07/2026 08:51

Apologies @Nadsthakur, I have only read your posts as I am having a mini/minor health episode, that I always treat at home - I am well practiced at managing it - therefore, I am having to concentrate very strictly in order to understand your - or anyone's - posts at the moment.

Anyway, did you ask the custom officer if they could defrost a small amount of your milk, and then test it? If they couldn't, or wouldn't do that, then I can't think of any other solutions, unless they literally didn't have the facility to do so. If they couldn't test a sample of your breast milk, I wonder if they would have agreed to thawing a couple of ounces of it for you, and then watched as you either gave your baby that small amount, or until you drank it yourself, to show it wasn't poisoned, or laced with illegal drugs?!

Would you mind saying how you were going to defrost your baby's bottle during the flight, please, OP, and would you not have needed to defrost it before your baby actually started wimpering for it once you were all up amongst the clouds, so that the cabin wasn't filled with your baby's crying while it waited - very impatiently, as babies are wont to do?!!

It is many years since I breastfed my babies, and the one time that I tried to express my milk, I accidentally broke the machine whilst trying to get even one tiny drop of that elixir of life to leave my body, so that I could keep my baby happy! From adverts I have subsequently seen, and articles I have read, I do know that these days there are all sorts of gadgets that can help busy and stressed parents cope with the demands of s/he who must be obeyed! So maybe you have a, very small and lightweight device, that you can use when out and about, to defrost your dear child's bottle?

I do hope that your holiday goes, or went, really well OP, and that you have/had a brilliant time ⛱️ 🌊 🤽‍♀️

ThisISmycircusandtheseAREmymonkeys · 12/07/2026 08:52

pambeesleyhalpert · 12/07/2026 08:31

Why should she give her breast fed baby formula! Not everyone is comfortable formula feeding and that’s absolutely fine! They shouldn’t have thrown the milk away

It is baffling how many people think rules don’t apply to them. Is it really that hard to comprehend?

WonderfulSmith · 12/07/2026 08:52

JustReallyTiredOfThis · 12/07/2026 08:00

I'm so sorry for the loss of your milk and the time and effort it took you to make it.

Unfortunately airport security staff can be absolute jobsworths. How it's different to testing a laptop (also a solid object) I don't know.

It seems a daft rule to restrict frozen breast milk, especially given you could very easily have been allowed to defrost one for them to test. Heck even just the time taken to discuss this with them would have been enough for it to defrost enough to test.

I wonder if this is something the breastfeeding network or la leche league could challenge at a bigger and higher level?

Hope you were still able to enjoy your trip 😊

They aren’t being ‘jobsworths’. These aren’t some petty rules akin to not going in a nightclub with trainers on. They have to follow the rules for very good reason.

Newname26 · 12/07/2026 08:52

rwalker · 12/07/2026 08:49

It’s nothing about being a jobsworth ridiculous to think they could bend the rules

Exactly their job is to make sure the rules are followed.
Remember the rules are for everyone's safety.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/07/2026 08:53

WonderfulSmith · 12/07/2026 08:46

But what goes through security has nothing to do with Ryanair. What Ryanair allow on a flight is one thing, what can go through airport security is another.

Then their info should say that? That makes it even more confusing. 😵‍💫

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